What would you do?
@trulysnuggable (422)
United States
December 12, 2006 6:32am CST
My dad is getting married this saturday. I am upset because he still hasnt told me. I found out through another family member. I am dissapointed that he hasnt called to tell me or invite me. Now I cant go because I am working, but if I would have known about it before this week I could have gotten someone else to work for me. I dont know if I should confront him and tell him that I am dissapointed that he wasnt the one to tell me, or if I should just leave the situation alone. I know the woman he is going to marry and I am fine with them getting married. So its not like I disapprove of it. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated.
3 responses
@mommydearest (877)
• United States
13 Dec 06
Call him. I don't understand why he wouldn't tell you unless he is afraid that you won't approve.
@trulysnuggable (422)
• United States
13 Dec 06
I dont know why he hasnt told me either. I dont disapprove of the marriage. I have been as supportive as I can. He finally emailed me, but still didnt say anything about him getting married. Oh well. I am supposed to see him this weekend. Maybe I can talk to him then. Thanks.
@trulysnuggable (422)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Thanks, my dad is hard to talk to. I sent him an email, but i havent heard anything from him since. So i dont even know if he read it yet.
@sj_chaudhry (1537)
• Canada
13 Dec 06
i think this situation, you just leave it alone for a while becuase if he did not told you about his marriage then your confrontation will make the situation more intensed... so after some times you can call your father for congrats him and then you can put your argument for not inviting you and telling you about this.
