CAN U DARE TO ATTEND UR LOVERS MARRIAGE??

in a few days, I am going to be doing just the same. please dont judge me that i did not try marrying her. I am not in a position to marry her and neither she is in a position to marry me. we knew that even b4 we started loving each other. But in my opinion we both are the most intimate lovers on earth. i want to attend the marriage, she does not want me to. not sure how i will take it up, but want to dare to atleast, cos hopefully my heart will console by crying so much internally looking at her marry someone else..

I think I should..let me if my lover can see me in her marrige.

I can't I never go there and never seen her also

I think it depends on situation how you broke up your relations. For me if the relation was ended with mutual consent of each other then there is no problem to attend the marriage and if this marriage is going on with cheating by my girl friend even then I will attend the marriage to show that I am happy without you. It would be very difficult for me to attend if by any means we have been separated.

I wont attend his wedding, i will just going to hurt myself if i will attend. What would i gain if i attend that Wedding?

ya abviously if she is my lover then she is gonna marry me only right then i have to be there

Sucha thing has not happened to me. nOw will becuase I am already married lol!. But on serious terms, if I had to attend such an event I would. If someone does not love you anymore what can you do. What is the use of sulking. After all no love in this material wolr di true. All love is imperfect here and temporary. So an intelligent person does not grief for that which is not worthy of grief. Nice post. Thanks very much.

No i cant do that

noo not at all i cant dare ..if i go there then tears will rolling out from my eyes and heart cant bear those things and just saw u r question and replying to your discussion also hurting my heart

i want it to try. I want to make sure that i'm over with him, that im numbness about that man