Marriage

hi,both are some advantages and disadvantages..ARRANGED MARRIAGE---you get support from elders,you get security,and any disputes between you will be solved by elders,financial support,moral support..LOVE MARRIAGE---good understanding between partners,more love and attachments,free atmosphere to discuss on anything..

In marriages arranged and love marriage its very difficult to tell. in love marriage we come to know our partner from long time. and in arranged marriage we meet them and then immediately marry them. so no time to know them before marriage. We will know them only after marriage. So i thing both are good. It depends according to the person.

I think that a marriage based on love is the best, but I don't live in a culture that supports arranged marriages so maybe that is why. I just can't really understand someone getting married to someone and being with them the rest of thier lives if they don't love the person. It doesn't sound like fun to me at all. I mean, what if you HATE the person you are arranged to marry? Then what are you to do?

Love marriage of course. We dont live in a third world country where the man gives the other man 4 cows for his daughter. I dont think parents, although they may have good intentions, should be able to chose a mate for their kids. I mean, if I could have chose my moms husband, it wouldnt be the man shes married to but it works for her so...oh well.