I am in trouble....will you guys suggest me what should I do?
By Hamlet333
@Hamlet333 (724)
Pakistan
December 13, 2006 4:56am CST
I met a person in the start of this year through a match maker website.I talked with him on phone.Suddenly he shows his desire to meet me as he is living in another city,he came here and we met each other.I was happy and he was too.Then he went to his actual birth city to their parents and this time he tells me that he will talk at home about me and try to convince his parents.
This was his last call to me,1 month passed and he was not called me,not even he is recieving my calls & not replying my sms.I felt I m in love with him very much.now I want suggestion from you guys...what should I do as I think I can't forget him and he is not responsing my calls so wht to do???Its irritating and as I have talked about him to my mom already so she also want my reply and I am waiting for his reply.now I want my final action...suggest wht to do.
Thanx
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7 responses
@qouniq (1966)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 07
Just try to forget him,..when someone who is blind dated with you did not called you back after meeting you for the first time is a person that don't have any feeling (love) to you. And as your culture mostly is arrange marriage,..then i guess you just concentrate in what is good for you rather than thinking of this guy...I am sorry to say this,..but most pakistani guys in my country are liar...and you should know this better...
@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
3 Mar 07
not only Pakistani guys but the man all over the world r liars,most of them.
anyhow,thnx 4 response.
@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
2 Mar 07
i think you should ignore him, he is not interested on you, he is just playing and trying to boast his ego, dont waste your time and energy thinking of him, if he is interested on you he will send any sing that he is just busy and will soon call and see you but nothing then forget him.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
13 Dec 06
i have a feeling that his parents objected to the relationship and he dont have the guts to confront you with the truth OR he's just not that into you and trying to play with your feeling...either way...forget about him and moved on..if he really love you, at least he will have the decency to send you a mail/sms to explain the silence
@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
18 Feb 07
I agree.I also w8 for his response.but he has not response me as yet.
@florenciascorner (381)
• United States
21 Feb 07
The more you think about him the more important he is becoming to you. And he shouldn't be since he sounds like a jerk anyway. Just forget him, maybe go back to the site and find someone else! Good luck.
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
22 Apr 09
Did it really happen to you. I mean how did you fell in love with a person, you met just once? I have seen 100s of sites of these kind, and there are plenty of people who express desire to meet you just after saying hi. They dont love you beb it's curiosity, its lust too, to see a girl,many a times.
i AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULD NOT MEET PEOPLE THROUGH NET, BUT JUST DONT BE blind in judging people, be it through internet, matchmaking or in real world.
