How old do a boy or girl should get married?
By beb_vanie11
@beb_vanie11 (240)
Philippines
December 13, 2006 11:33pm CST
I am planning to get married on my 25 years of age, 3 years left only. But I think we are not yet ready to enter this kind of relationship. We both dont have a stable job, I am telling to get married in this age, because I am afraid to get married when Im too old.I dont want to get at 30 before I got married.What do you think would be the best age to plan for a marriage?
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17 responses
@sexyyogesh (654)
• India
14 Dec 06
There is no right age for marraige but if u believe in ur love u will go through and both of u will be stable after marraige.
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@jaisalpk (224)
• India
14 Dec 06
According to me my opinion the age of a male to get married is 28 , by that time he can settle of his own after completing his education, getting into a new career he'll b having taht extra money to raise another person.
For a girl after 22 is the best age to marry. this is after completing education. One of the couple should have a ood job and he should be sure that he can take care of his better half.
@beb_vanie11 (240)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
Actually that is my ideal age, but we are in the same age of my boyfriend. So if ever I'll wait for him to go until 28, so it means I am 28 also.I feel so old at that time that I am not yet married.But I think age is not the hindrance to get married.Right!I can go to wedding anytime I wanted..
@vincent72 (1633)
• Australia
14 Dec 06
well beb i think not too young but then not to old just that both have been together for afew yeasr and both wish to take the relationship to the enxt sytep ..marriage , if both are committed by all means g ofor it , umm ithink and age is the time only 2 of you can really say.
@anonvenu (401)
• India
22 Dec 06
Physiologically speaking 25 for the girl and 28 for the boy is the right age to get married. But that is only biology. To get married in the real world, you have to have economic stability and enough mental maturity on both sides :)
No matter how much you both love each other, if economic stability is not there, the relation can breakdown. Think well before jumping into a commitment.
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@volatile (204)
• United States
14 Dec 06
If you guys are made for eachother then you guys can wait for eachother. If you have doubts about the timing then go with your gut feeling. He should be willing to wait. As far as age goes...there is no perfect age. But you guys should set yourselves up to give yourselves the best chance at being happy. That means being prepared emotionally, physically, and financially.
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@beb_vanie11 (240)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
Thanks for your response.It gives me a little bit idea about my happiness in life.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
14 Mar 07
I can't know what the best age is to marry, everybody chooses for himself/herself, but I have to tell you that your considerations are right: it's hard to marry without a stable job.
To me you are still very very young, you shouldn't be in a hurry. In my country (Italia) you can find only a few girls marrying so young, life is expensive and finding a job is very hard, so people live with their parents for many years.
You and your boyfriend love each others, so, why this hurry? You could wait another couple of years....
@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
23 Dec 06
Although we lov eeach other, your sign should be avoided marriage when you are 23,28,and 39.
@hackedmind (271)
• India
14 Jan 07
every countrys goverment has decided the minimum as limit for marriage as if for india it is 18 for women and 21 for men this is done in order to stop child marriage .the decision has been taken after a proper scientific investigation so that the body of both is fit for marriage..now let us take the other point of view the personal one ............on this point of view most of the views will vary .........every one has it's on reason to get married on the particular age ..........if u talk about lovers they will try to marry each other as soon as possible ........if a person is carrier concerned than he or she will think of carrier first than marriage ......if u talk about a social person than he or she will mary by the age reaches 23 ........if parents have to make the arrange marriage than it will be at max 24....for girls and for boys it varies as when they get a job and they will be tied ............so u can see now how much variation is there in different opinion...
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
1 Jan 07
yeah, not more than 25 year old lol. if more than that year, you will be loose control and loosing virginity cos many satans outside there asking you to do that amazing thing.
@amit_sood (168)
• India
2 Jan 07
i like to marry that girl who is less then my age about five year because then they can give more love to each other and in between they have good understanding and respect its my thinking.
@slimes (353)
• Ukraine
1 Jan 07
Well for me it's adviceable for lady to get married as early as possible before 22 basically after school,because Menopause stage starts 40years of age;as such there will be sufficient time for her to have children earlier.While for the Men,it will be ok at 27 because they have a lot of responsibilities to take care of.......
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
When you talk about Getting Married, Age is not the main concern, Responsibility to the Holy Matrimony is the main factor. You may ask why??? let me ask you this, How can you responsible as a married person if you don't have a good paying job?, How can it be if you are not mature enough? How can it be if you don't know your partner(to be) well enough? What I mean is be prepared first. If that preparation reach the age of 23, 24, 25, 30, 35 and so on it doesn't matter. The most important is both of you are well prepared spiritually, mentally, physically, and materially. We can all achieve a good married life once we have prepared all this...
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
I think there is no ideal age to get married as long as they are in legal age. You want to get married in 25 but you don't want to have a child. What age do you want to get married. Imagine you have a child at the age of 30, you are almost 40 when your kid graduated in high school. Do you want your kids experience some of her classmate ask if you are the mother or grandmother?
@tanmayangre (841)
• India
19 Dec 06
well its ok
i think 26 would b fine
u would even complete u r education and may find a good job
@melrosepink (111)
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
In my opinion it is okay if you get married at the age of 25 as long as you are ready to face the life being married. You are both ready for the responsibility, physically & mentally fitted, have a stable job, all things that must be expected and unexpected in being married.
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
22 Dec 06
i am engaged and plan on getting married when i'm 28 i'm 25 now. but i dont think there's a set time. just when your ready you will know