I need Help Can some one please try to Help?

i got u, wht u bothering now... i have also bothered same condition in my college time, bt thn i jus talked wth both of them together, n askd whts ur both prob, n thn i got all main points n gt solved..i suggest u same, jus meet both of them together, n askd all talks proper, n find out solution.... i think so it will be best for u ..bcz i always do same n gt success.... bcz i dont like tht persons, who talk or fight in back of others, i jus talk in front of all n ask whts the matter..n it always work..

Just tell your friends that you would prefer if they didn't bad mouth each other to you, and that you are not prepared to take sides. If one tells you something bad about the other, then just tell them that you would prefer if they said it to the person in question and not to you. I know it is very difficult to be torn between two friends and I wish you the best of luck.

well just let them solve the problem. Dont be so worried about it, its their differences and they must find out themselves if they really know the value of their friendship. Let them work it out. I know how you feel. The only thing you can do is just listen dont let them think that you are the side of the other or to the other one. or give them space until they settle their differences.

If it is really bothering you maybe you should sit down with each friend seperately and tell them your position on their fight. Tell them that you don't want to (and won't if the case may be) take sides with either of them so it is pointless for one to tell you bad things about the other and vice versa. It's not fair for them to put you in the middle of the situation. At the same time be sensitive to the fact that they may be coming to you to vent their frustrations about the other friend. If it seems like they are doing it maliciously, or just to make the other person look bad to you then you should let them know what you will listen to and what you won't.