For gent: When we saw litle girls we always rember our daughter.

humm.. maybe it's normal for a marriage man who has married for years. children is the most important both for husband and wife. well.. it doesn't mean you don't love your wife ( well, i dunno!) but maybe the shape of your love is changing. it's not like love before marriage which is you crazy for her, can't blow her out of your mind.. you love her more naturally...(?)