my mother is 35 her boyfriend is 21

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well my mother is 35 and her boyfriend is 21 . i dont have a problem with it i mean he is closer in age to being my boyfriend and thats actually how they met , i met him and introduced them and i lost interest and they jus kept talking to each other eeryday untill she was crying all the time and it was because she was in love with him and didnt know what to do she feels its wrong. i see them talk and talk everyday for hours they never stop talking and its been like this for a year,they dont live together yet but he is planning to move in around febuary. she is afraid because she is 35 that when she is 50 he will be 35 and leave her for a woman his age or younger . they have so much in common ,love talking with each other and i have heard them talking sexually (thin walla and yea ewwww) but they seem to click in all the right ways,stil she cries sometimes because she is so much older and is afraid that when he tells his parents that he is actually dateing the mother and not the daughter that they will flip and try to make him end it , he hasent told his parentshes a colledge student and lives at home. do you think it should matter,she also cries because she cant have chldren anymore but she has a 3 year almost 4 year old and he adores her . i think she should stop crying and accept that all men arent like my father that all ont cheat and leave , but she is so scared that the age difference will ruin things in the future.... how can i reassure her that it is ok?