When husbands cheat.

people used to come up with excuses of why they cheat to make themselves feel better about themselves. no matter men or women have different reasons, but the true reasons are: they are selfish, they lie,cheat, and steal. it's who they are.

I don't think I can answer this question as I have never been in that predicament. I know I would be horrified and extremely angry at both of them. First thing I would do would be to pick something up and throw it at them. They say once a cheater always a cheater. That would be the end of my marriage. No forgiveness from this little black duck.