What is the single most valuable thing you have ever learned?

that no one is going to take care of you but you. I have learned that I have to make sure that I am happy and my son is happy and I have to make sure I am the one doing that for us because no one else is going to.

All that glitters aint gold. My mom used to tell me that about the men I have dated, when I used to go to car lots and try to get the most expensive cars etc. Basically saying just because it looks good to you dont mean its good for you. Nuff said.

Sometimes it is best to think before you speak, even if it is the truth

That I needed to accept the Lord as my personal savior and follow Him to ensure my place in Heaven someday. I feel so sorry for the people who don't know what I do or seem to think it's unimportant.

The one lesson I instilled in my children was "treat others the way you want to be treated". It still remains most important to me. If we all treated everyone we meet this way, what a better world it would be.

If you want freedom, first you must show responsibility. My parents taught me that growing up. Example: I wanted to go see White Lion and Stryper. It was a school night. My mom called my friend's (Tams) mom and found out for sure that Tams' mom was chaperoning us to this concert event. Then she told me that if I did not get up and go to school the next day, I had better never ask to go out past 9pm on a school night ever again. Example #2: I was in a Marketing Education program in highschool which made me eligible to get out of school for a half day to work at a local grocery my senior year. The deal was that I must: 1. Maintain a B average (check) 2. Not ever miss work or school unless I was honestly too sick to go (check) 3. Come home when I am told to and call if I must absolutely be later than that (check) 4. Stay out of trouble (check) In exchange for total freedom after graduation with the exception that I MUST CALL if I was going to stay out all night. I graduated at 17, so that was a pretty sweet deal for me. Yep, freedom and responsibility for one's self go hand in hand.

that we live only once. i think that explains it all. greetings. : )

Its only you for yourself, no one else.

I've learned that I can't make decisions based on other people. I have to make decisions based on me or else I will never be happy. People can give their opinions, but utlimately its what i need to do that I should decide

How to care for somebody so much and they just spit in your face.

there honestly have been soo many things..i dont htink i can name one..I have learned how much my family and close friends mean to me..i have had many hardships this year..and especially this month..I have learned how selfish i was before i had my son..and now i have learned the art of SELFLESSNESS.nothing is for me anymore..its all about him..

Oh I forgot one. How important it is to have a nickname. That no one else uses on the net.

Single mums can beat the odds. I have 7 kids two mortgages and still have no grey hair

To stand up for what you believe even though it may not be what people want to hear!!

Time is money so just do not waste it use it judiciously and you will be always gaining

mother

I think they have no tension about his family and they have no limitation too.In my opinion.

How to buy alot of items at wholesale. Instead of paying retail. Do not trust everyone. Even your best friend can rip you off.

ya that is the i find the girls heart