Do you like Gays or do they upset you?
By madonna143
@madonna143 (1737)
Philippines
43 responses
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
16 Dec 06
I dont dislike them or like them. I feel sorry for them. They are not normal people and actually should be getting treatment for themselves. If I see them together holding hands. I tend to get phyically sick to my stomach. I think that describes how I feel.
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
16 Dec 06
It sounds to me as if you may be the one who needs to get some treatment.
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@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
16 Dec 06
i accept them for who they are...i dont think they chose to be that way. i'm sure a lot of time, they wish that they could lead a normal life too.
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
Yes you are right. They did not choose to be gay. They were born that way according to the human genome project. It has been a proven fact. It's simple common sense actually. If you were straight, can you choose to like the same gender? This is also true with gays, can they choose and dictate their feelings to like the opposite gender? I don't think so. Things that we don't have control of are inborn.
@RAMPersona (2033)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
i'm a bit homophobic. but i don't ridicule them.
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@Souta_Chika (839)
• Indonesia
17 Dec 06
Yuckss...i hate gays...
it is disguisting...
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@precy828 (1294)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
well, i don't have anything against gays/lesbians and the like.as long as we can get along with,that's really fine with me.i accept people as who they are. i don't like pretentious personality.it would irrate me.all you have to do is be yourself.if others wouldn't want you to be what you are then,it's really none of your business.it's there problem and definitely,not yours.
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
Well I think you are right. We should let these people live the way they want to. I would rather know a person that he/she is gay rather than the pretenders who deceive people that they are straight.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
So does that mean that you don't like them? Can you further explain being indifferent with people?
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@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
16 Dec 06
The gays I've known haven't been any different otherwise than any other person. They have been nice people, and I accept them at that level and don't delve into the part of them I can't understand. I taught the last 4 years with a guy who was gay, and he was a really nice guy and a wonderful teacher.
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@mytwo_daughters (2663)
• United States
17 Dec 06
Someones sexuality doesn't bother me. I had gay friends in high school, and every experience, every person will hopefully make all of us a better person. I feel I am a better person knowing those friends because I am not judgemental to the gay community in any sense. I feel badly that there are such insecure people in the world who have to make it a horrible environment for everyone.
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@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I don't have a problem with them. They're fine by me. I feel they should have the same rights as heterosexuals but that isn't always the case here in the US. Unfortunately there will always be prejudice.
@lossforredwords (3620)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
i dont have any problem with gay. actually i kinda like there company cause they will really make you laugh and im sure there will be no dull moment. im also comfortable talking to them even the sensitive stuff cause i know they also have the heart of a woman.
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@lauczi (962)
• Poland
17 Dec 06
honestly i dont know any gay personally or he jusut didnt tell anyne he is a gay. i saw gay men in tv so i dont know if that is true or not? but i wouldnt like a man more girlish than i am, i mean screaming and shaking on seeing mouse or moving as if he was made of rubber with thin voice. i dont wanna to insult anybody, but that kind of persons i just dont like, if a girl would behave in a such way i wouldnt like her to.
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@cutejhan18 (910)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
i like gays they are so energetic and really fun to talk to.. i have a lot of gays friends
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
It depends, some gays are rude, anyway they're cool and funny, gender doesn't matter to me, as long as they don't harm me..have a nice day.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
Well, in general let's just not be rude to anybody. Respect others so as to gain respect for yourself.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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16 Dec 06
I don't have a problem with Gays, as long as they keep themselves to themselves, which they normally do.
They're quite often very loyal and good friends and as long as they don't interfere with your own lifestyle, I believe in living and letting live, letting other people follow the path their comfortable with, and they letting me do the same.
Our local pub landlords are a gay couple and they're really nice people.
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@mfrancq (1806)
• United States
16 Dec 06
well, I like everyone in some aspect. I disagree with the lifestyle of a homosexual. However, I myself am not perfect so who would I be to judge them for it? Just because I don't agree with their choice, doesn't mean that I can not like them and accept them for who they are.
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@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 06
i don't hate gay people i just don't agree with homosexuality. i have a few very nice guy friends that are gay. they really are nice. they respect the fact that i am straight and they respect my values. i respect their choice.
i know that there are people that don't want anything to do with gays because they are straight and the gays tend to want to pick up on them...that's just not cool. i can understand where that would be a tiny bit troublesome.
i look at it this way. to each his/her own. i like people for who they are and if homosexuality is their choice, it's their choice, it's not any of my business.