After marriage if you don't have a child, will you adopt one from orphanage..
By kfg20012003
@kfg20012003 (1037)
India
December 15, 2006 8:05am CST
i will wish to adopt one child,if i have no child after marriage and take him/her as God given gift to me
11 responses
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
20 Dec 06
well, if the doctor confirmed that i cant bear any children, then i will go for adoption...i love children too much..and if i cant have my own children, the best would be to adopt so that i can enjoy being call 'mummy' :D
@lauczi (962)
• Poland
19 Dec 06
well my wish is not to have child, if my husband dont force me to have one i will be happy. if he forces me then i will tell him to take care of the child himself. becuz i know it is easy for men to want chuld but when is born all the do is play with them sometimes and all the rest must do woman.
@kfg20012003 (1037)
• India
20 Dec 06
seeing a child will seem to be a burden,but it is a Gods gift and u must never say no,not all couples will have the luck to get an offspring
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Dec 06
my boyfriend and i talked about it. that if ever i cannot give him a child or is he's not fertile, too, we'll give adoption a go. other couples separate if they can;t have a baby of their own. one of the party wants to have his/her own and do it with someone else. and that i don't want to happen. if we can't make a child, then it's not meant to be. there's always another option. an adoption. giving a new future to a child who has lost one.
@shantimatimohan (69)
• India
8 Jan 07
I think adopting a child if I don't have one is a good thing.But what I feel better is we can request a known willing couple to bear a child for us.This will not lead to any unwanted family traits and so on.I have my neighbour done like this.A couple of friends have adopted like this.Instead of wasting money and time once it is decided that I cannot bear a child,I shall adopt.
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
30 Dec 06
I think I will have no qualms about having to adopt a child if I cannot bear my own. Though it would be nice to have my own baby with my husband, there are many children out there who deserves to be loved, waiting for someone to shower their love on them.
@ramya186 (949)
• India
30 Dec 06
ya i like to have it if not also i like to give some money in my monthly earning's to the orphanage.... and like to help othere ....i think these is good habit and everyone should fallow these so that every one in the world can enjoy ....
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Its been wondering my mine for the past several years, if i get married and my wife cannot give me a child than i would consider adoption.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Its been wondering my mine for the past several years, if i get married and my wife cannot give me a child than i would consider adoption.