Obesity......in a 18 month old child?
By briennekb
@briennekb (610)
United States
December 15, 2006 4:41pm CST
My 18 month old daughter is constantly wanting to eat. She begs for food 24/7 it seems like. I am sure she isn't constantly hungry, I think she just likes eating. And she is well fed. She eats breakfast, lunch and dinner. And she has two small snacks during the day. For her meals, she eats the average amount any 18 month old eats. About 6 oz. of food. She doesn't get seconds. And she eats healthfully. So why is she constantly begging for food? I am afraid that she will not grow out of this constant need for food. I don't want her to be an over weight child. I can control her eating now but eventually she will be able to make her own choices. Right now, she is average in size for her age. But I am afraid that will change.
Has anyone had this problem with their child? Do you you have any advice that will help my daughter?
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@kris55 (848)
• Canada
16 Dec 06
I also have this problem with my 5 year old boy. He has always been chubby (but cute so i let it go) but people always told me that he will get taller and grow out of it. So far he hasnt. He is just getting bigger. His tummy is getting bigger. And he always wants to eat. I cant starve him. Its not like i am feeding him like those ladies on the maury show. He eats normal amounts at a time, but wants to eat frequently. He doesnt have a problem with eating after being full. He knows when he is full. It is a hard problem to deal with. Especially in the fact that his dad and I are seperated, so I dont really know what he is eating at his dads and how much physical activity he is getting there. So ya, I kind of feel like I am in the same boat as you!!
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Have you ever asked your sons' doctor about it? If so, what did he say?
@kris55 (848)
• Canada
17 Dec 06
no i havent, i just always thought it wasnt a big deal, that he would grow out of it. But lately I have been realizing that he is not growing out of it. His belly cant fit into 6x jeans and he is 5 years old!! Cant really go up a size, then they are way to long!! I am just going to try to get him out for more exersise for now and see what happens
@sexysilver (928)
• United States
16 Dec 06
What is considered "normal" is breakfast, lunch & dinner.
But what has been proven healthier is healthy snacking throughout the day in the form of about 6 smaller meals, it keeps your metabolism up & helps fight obesity. Now if those 6 smaller meals wree all large meals or all junk food then yes I'd be concerned. But 6 smaller meals throghtout te day is even recommended for adults.
If all else fails consult her peditrian. Hope this helps. :)
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
She eats five times a day. Breakfast, lunch and dinner and two snacks. She always snacks on fruit so her snacking habit is healthy.
@GardenGerty (160713)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Monitor this very well. There are neurological disorders that lead to compulsive eating in young children. Also talk to your doctor, though, as she may be going through a real growing spurt. She may be going to be a large/tall child, if so she needs more food. Make sure what you do serve her has some texture to it so that it takes her longer to chew and swallow it. She may just need to chew more. I would be sure to express this concern at her next well child check up.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
She does have really big feet for her age and being a girl. Maybe I should feed her more, and then I'll have myself a WNBA player! :o)
@acosjo (1903)
• Canada
16 Dec 06
I am going through the same thing with my daughter who is 1.5 years old. She constantly says "more" everytime she's done eating and it seems like she'll never stop.
When I feel she's had enough, I simply don't give her anymore. If she has all her regular meals and snacks and asks for more, I just don't give her any. Not sure why this is, maybe she's not hungry but like the fact there is food and thinks it's fun to do.
I don't think it's a problem. She's just a kid and kids will be kids. I also don't think you have anything to worry about because my boy who is almost 5, used to eat a lot and for some reason, doesn't want to eat now.
It's just a phase. You have nothing to worry about. Make sure she eats her normal meals and snacks, and don't let her have more. You're the boss.
Good luck. It will be fine.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Many people have said it is just a phase. And that's definitely a good assessment. I hope that is all the problem is. Only time will tell though.
@la_plus_bonne (167)
• United States
16 Dec 06
She will probably grow out of it. She is only 18 months! If it really becomes a problem, wait until she gets a little older and teach her how to eat...
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@AndreaM76 (1164)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Have you expressed this with your doctor? Get her to drink water when she wants to eat. It will make her feel full till next meal. Kids go through growing spells though and may require more eating at times My 8 year old isn't a eater but when he's going through a growing spurt then he tends to want to eat more often
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
That makes sense. She is definitely growing fast at 18 months old. I do try to give her water when she starts begging fo food. Sometimes she'll drink it and sometimes she won't. But for her age, she drink s a good amount of water. She seems to like it. Hopefully she'll continue to like it. When I was a kid I hated water.
@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
16 Dec 06
The only thing I can think of is, is your daughter constantly surrounded by food? I doubt that you are always snacking on a bag of chips or cookies or anything like that, but seeing others always putting something in their mouths may have an influence on her behaviour (even though what you're doing is right). Do you have foods "out" that she can see, instead of having them in cupboards, etc? (Again, not a judgement call-I leave bread, bananas and other things on open shelves in the kitchen.) Maybe the environment is having an impact on how often your daughter "thinks" she's hungry.
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Actually, I had thought that maybe she wants food because she sees it. But I have put all of the food away in cupboards. She knows where it is though.
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Oh trust me, I do play with her. I do everything to try to keep her mind off of food. She is definitely not neglected in the mother-daughter playtime.
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 06
i think u shld do something on it...don't ever let yr baby in obesity..it's hard to overcome it then.it's not normal 4 begging foods all the time.u shld make sure yr baby in the right diet!!
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
What she eats is not the problem. She eats very healthfully. The problem is how much she wants to eat it.
@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
16 Dec 06
While none of my own kids were like this, my nephew was very much like this actually from the day he was born. The pediatrician would tell my sister she was crazy, a baby will not over eat; however, he did. He would literally eat until he threw up. She would feed him the amount she felt he would be comfortable with, generally slightly more than his twin brother ate, and would stop. As he progressed with age he continued to be an overeater. Actually going to buffets and eating until he puked. He was tested and did have a thyroid problem, but I'm not sure it's completely related. He's heavy today, at age 8, and attacks food like he's never eaten. I'm not sure what it is because by this point his thyroid is in check and I think it's a learned habit. My only suggestion is to consult your physician and ask that her thyroid be checked.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
I hope she doesn't have a thyroid problem. But I think it is a little early to check her tyroid. I will probably just wait awhile and see what happens.
@akhileshbdn (42)
• India
16 Dec 06
Dear,Do you believe law of karma and reincarnation.This is effect of her past life .You can consult a past life therepist in your area.Yhe solution can be.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
No, this will not help me. Even if I did believe in past lives, my daughters eating habits have nothing to do with that. And even if it did, talking to a pediatrician is the smarter way to go. But thanks anyways.
@bonnielass (484)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Well you have her checked and make sure there is nothing medical causing this. If she is begging for food and there is nothing wrong and you know she is ged right. Give her extra water during the day to help fill her. Maybe some light fruits. I wouldnt up the food dosage as that will enlarge her stomach and yes help create a very over weight child.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Everything you just suggested I already do. Which is why I'm worried about her. She drinks 4 oz. of milk, 4 oz. of juice and the rest of her fluid intake is water, in a single day.
@postbusf (120)
• Netherlands
16 Dec 06
You should give your baby food at set times. Not more not less. Your baby will crye very much, but you must stand firm. This is not easy but this is for the good for your baby, and her future! You now i am right. You will be going crazy for her but you will succeed! good luck!
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thanks but I already do that. She has set meal times and I don't give her food just because she whines for it. And she does cry, but I can deal with it.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
15 Dec 06
What are you feeding her? Could it be that what you are giving her is not enough to fill her? Most 18 month olds are on solid food and are starting to get like a child rather than a baby. If she is not overweight, I don't see anything wrong with giving her a bit more food. 6 oz is not a lot of food at all. What does her pediatrician say she should be eating? I think by controlling her food, that will cause more problems for you in the future.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
6 oz. is the size of a Gerber Graduates meal. More than enough for a 18 month old. 6 oz. is like nothing for us, but for her, it fits her belly perfectly. Not to mention in between meals she gets a reasonably sized snck. She is not under fed. Children at her age are not capable of making their own choices. So while I have control over her diet, I have to make sure she is eating properly. Controlling her diet will only be a problem when she gets older and can make that choice. And when she is that age, she will have choices to make for herself.
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
That sounds good in theory, but she is only 18 motnhs old. It's not like I can sign her up for soccer. And she isn't lacking in physical exercise. She is just as active as any 18 month old should be. But that is good advice anyways. Thanks
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
15 Dec 06
My youngest is going through this. I think they just decide that it tastes so good and maybe they are afraid someone else will eat it before they get more of it. My son is 7 and he has just started eating almost as much as his 16 year old brother.
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Wow. That's a lot of food. I'm sure a 16 year old boy eats a lot!
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
16 Dec 06
My son is going through the same thing, I have taled to my doctor and she said that sometimes it is j ust a fase, but as she get older keep an eye on her and get her shecked for tyroids as of right now she is growing and when kids grow they like to eat so just keep an eye on her for now!
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@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
That's probably the best advice. She begs for food all of the time but she sure doesn't get it!! If I let her eat whatever she wanted, she would definitely be having some problems already.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
16 Dec 06
Is she eating now what you eat as it could be Baby Food is enough for her anymore she needs our Food and also you say she doesn't get afters try giving her Yoghurts or something for Afters I always did that with mine and the other thing I can suggest is always have fruit in and if she wants something give her Fruit
But do not worry to much all little ones go through this As long as you give her healthy Food and not sweets and that you will be ok
I hope this helps a bit
@briennekb (610)
• United States
16 Dec 06
The problem isn't what she eats. She has a very healthy diet. For breakfast she eats cereal or yogurt, for lunch she eats pasta, macaroni & chesse, or somthing like that, with a vegetable. And for dinner she always eats meat or raviolis with a vegetable. And for her snacks she always eats fruit. So she eats good food, she just wants it all the time.