Should the Parents be blamed for the bad things that their Children do?

I think that the behavior of a child can sometimes be "blamed" on the parent but this is not always the case. I've seen many kids who grew up around a good influence and well mannered parents and yet they still have foul mouths (because of what they learn from other children at school, etc). In some cases though, where a child is violent because they see this at home, then yes it is the parents fault.

There is an amount of responsibility a parent has with regards to their children, but sometimes children from well upbringing homes fall off the rails, so it makes it hard when the best has been done, but this still happens!

I think deff parents are about 75% to blame for there children,I know what i have seen how parents have "molded " there children.. I have seen fathers teach there boys to fight..and parents that sit on there arses while god knows where theer children are,or spend no time at all with them..or ignore them and they end up beign bad just for attention..then theer are the children that i think are honestly born bad..i have seen it..

partly i guess. what a parent can do is to be a good role model and supportive to his/her child, but not neccessarily consenting.

yes ofcourse this is responsibility of every parents to stop their children

It depends on the age of the child. If they're under eighteen, I would say yes, because the parents are responsible for teaching them right from wrong, but over eighteen, the parents are no longer responsible, as the child is of age. So, in the case of over eighteens.. no. In the cast of under eighteens.. yes.

That depends at what age they do it. I don't think that a parent should be held accountable for everything that one of there adult children do, as the saying goes "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink". But as the parent of a minor child there has to be some sort of supervision, and rules that children should learn to live by, but then again a parent cannot be responsible for everything there children do be it a minor child or an adult one.

No, not really. Maybe for the conduct for them, when they are a young child. But later on, this child is an adult, and must take responsiblity for themselves, and make the right choices. Parents do the best they can. Or, most do anyway. They aren't perfect, but they do love their children and try to do the right thing by them. Adult children should not blame parents for anything.

Yes, to some extent, but from an age on children must take the blame of their own deeds

While I do think that parents play a huge role in their children's actions, there are instances where the parent can try their hardest to be the best influence possible and the child still turns out to be a bad apple. Sometimes I think you cannot control the destiny of another.

yes thy can be since thy are the parents...and besides even friends can also b a bad influence!

Of course. The parents are the ones raising them, and teaching them right from wrong. I read a discussion on this site the other day where this man was shopping and some kid just went and bit the heck out of his arm. The mother saw the kid and said absolutely nothing. She just continued to look around and shop and then walked away. Now tell me, what did that teach that child?

It depends on what the child has done. Even though they say a child is a representation of their parents.

Yes, they are responsable, but at some point blamed together with their kids.

I don't think the parents are to be blamed for the mistakes of their children. The children make their own choices, so they have to be responsible for them. Although in some cases sometimes we have to see the family background because they might have done something that could have influenced the child's psychological development.

There is not all the things in the hands of parents.. Always parents would like there child to be a good person and they try there level best and that is why parents should not be blamed in every case.

I believe it goes on a case by case basis, but at some point, children have to grow up and be adults and take responsibility for their own actions. It's life and how things are. I also don't think parents, if "to blame", should take all the blame. Again, we all have to take responsibility for our own actions. No one forces us to make the decisions that we make.

no parents will take care children to thier best they new what children should do but without thier notice what was happen we cant blame them

yes parents are blamed with their children are doing wrong things but they did not explain what is wrong what is correct if they doing like that children are not done first ofall parents are no taking care n children i their young age if they take proper care they must be did not worry about children

I have two kids and at times my daughter acts out and I feel that I am to blame for most of her actions. I have attitude and my daughter learned it from me. Parents need to take the step and admit to this. We are the main reasons. Our children learn from us.