If you've decided not to have children, what are your reasons?
By immadismom
@immadismom (475)
United States
December 15, 2006 9:02pm CST
I've always wondered about this. I have one child, haven't gotten to the point where I really want another. I have friends who don't want children for various reasons, and I respect them for knowing that it is not the right choice for them. Since there are so many kids in this world to parents who shouldn't be parents.
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@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I'm one of those people who never wants kids. I have my reasons and there are many. They're too expensive, I don't have the patience, I can be very irritable, they're messy, I like time to myself, I like the ability to come and go as I please and not have to worry about who's watching the kids, etc, etc. The list goes on. I'm one of those people in the world who should never be a parent.
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@immadismom (475)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Thanks for sharing your reasons. At least you know that you shouldn't be a parent & recognize that about yourself.
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@cpamanda (693)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I definitely want to have children. I know there are some people who do not want them and I can respect that. What bothers me is the people who have no sense or ability to be good parents having 4 or 5 of them and them all being on welfare.
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@immadismom (475)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I agree. There are many people who should not be having one child, let alone 4 or 5.
@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
31 Jul 11
I've decided I don't want to have any kids when I was a teen, and I'm in my early 20s now and I stand by my decision (despite what my mother and sister thinks).
My reasons are just as Poison_Girl said--kids being expensive, I'm not always patient, and I enjoy the freedom. I don't really like kids anyway. Not that I would ever want any harm to come to them, or I wouldn't try to help a child if they were in danger, but I just don't like kids.
Although I consider myself a kind and caring person, I just don't can't see myself as a parent.