what if....(help me)

avoid that married person by all means. it is indeed a good feeling to be inlove and be loved, but NOT when you know that you are hurting someone and that you cannot be so sure if you can have your love one all by yourself. just try to put your yourself in the place of your love one's spouse. for sure you wouldn't want someone to wreck your home or your marriage. trust me... been there done that.

I generally avoid this kinda situation coz if she/he has married despite knowing your feelings towards him/her either she/he has cheated or its one sided and in both the situation you should simply walk away in my opinion.