my young daughter has started stealing small amounts of money from my purse
By ESKARENA1
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
11 responses
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Feb 07
Hi EsKaren I don't know how I missed this one out. I hope you have managed to sort this out as it is now 3 Months later. I know my Son went through a Stage for a little While when he was 12 doing this. He wanted it for sweets but the thing is he knew all he had to do was ask and I would have given it to him lol.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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21 Feb 07
yes im sure they do, but its still a worry at the time, all the best to you
blessed be
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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21 Feb 07
blessed be, yes i think we have sorted it out now, we spoke to her seperately, then again together, we told her about how wrong it was and it seemed to work
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
21 Feb 07
Yes it is best to teach them while they are young how wrong it is to steal. All kids do it, but they must be told it is wrong or they will never understand when they get older. All you can do is lay the foundation and forced the rules and hope for the best.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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21 Feb 07
thankfully it seems to have stopped, blessed be. Talking is the only way
@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
16 Dec 06
Sorry, I have no suggestions but I am sure you have to do something. At the moment is not a big problem I suppose but it can be in the future. I am not an expert about kids.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
16 Dec 06
it's to bad to heard about your daughter maam:)
just talk to her that it's bad to steal a thing.
and explain to her what punishment to the people
stealing the thing's of other.
@vikceo (1301)
• India
16 Dec 06
yes that's a lil serious problem.. but try to convince your daughter aboutit very calmly and with love.. say her ask me whenever you need money rather stealing i will give you w/o asking why do youneed.. once she is comfortale to ask you then start slowing knowing her usage of that money.. hope it could help
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@monet0077 (156)
• United States
21 Feb 07
To me it sounds like she just doesn't understand the boundries. Maybe she doesn't see it as stealing, but just something she wants? If she is really young you should try to explain to her the difference bewteen what's hers and what belongs to other people. When I was 5 I stole a piece of candy from the grocery store. My father found out and made me go back into the store and take it back and apoligize. That had a big impact on me.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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21 Feb 07
yes i agree, i think something like this is the best way to deal with it, blessed be
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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16 Dec 06
ty but its the 4 year old thats doing it its not as clear at that age
@nevsaynev131420 (44)
• China
16 Dec 06
well,i'm already 21,but i'm still a children in my parent's eyes,and when i'm about 9,i also did that thing for many times,
also not so much,and mainly used the money to buy what i want but my parents hadn't bought for me,but when i grew up,i found that it was wrong,so gradully i stopped to do that again myself,and didn't let my parents known about it
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