abused children

Child abuse is a serious matter. He should deal with the matter with maturity and not be biased. The poor abused child will other wise develop a fear pshycosis.

Its not always that father's decisions could be right! It depends... May be he sees the issue in a different angle, according to which his action would have been right. This is because of different ways of thinking.

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This isnt good Well yes it is good on her dad's part to support the cousin but at the same time why is he forgetting who really is his daughter! This is totally insane its ok to show concern to others but not at the cost of our own people

That poor girl, her parents should be shot. How could the father take the side of the cousin?

Families can be a pain in the BUTT. My oldest was molested at age 3 by her cousin and I called the police and reported it. I spent a good year of my parents, younger sis, and brother hating me for reporting it. I think a lot of families feel you don't call the police on family and you deal with things privatly. Its really hard to step out and do the right thing when you have a family like that. Not everyone can deal with the cold shoulder and lack of support like I did.

It's crime tu abused children so I think that you must inform or signal the fact to specialized structures of your country so that they take care of the problem. It is serious and an advices are not able to do anything here.

No I dont understand that kind of behavior I would have called the cops on that boy and thats that

Child abuse is the physical or psychological maltreatment of a child by an adult, often synonymous with the term child maltreatment or the term child abuse and neglect. There are many forms of abuse and neglect and many governments have developed their own legal definition of what constitutes child maltreatment for the purposes of removing a child and/or prosecuting a criminal charge. In the United States, the Federal Government puts out a full definition of child abuse and neglect and creates a summary of each State definition. To view, go to Definitions of Child Abuse and Neglect: Summary of State Laws [1] that is part of the 2005 State Statute series by the National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information

Many people who abuse children are not punished because the parents want to safeguard their children's future and doesn't want the world to know. Most victims of fear doesn't tell it outside to their parents. Some victims become prey throughout the life especially children. What punishment should these people who abuses children be given? Should there be some children protection act or court be there which doesn't bring the children's name out or to the court directly, but punish the people who abuse the children?

That's pretty evil. Do you know this girl? Is there any way you can help her?

Everybody idea is possibly dissimilar! ! I cannotunderstand! ! Did not know what idea everybody does have? ?

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I dont understand the reason of the violence . These are crazy people, i can' t accept that .

someone should report this abuse even if her father will not! by not reporting it he is adding to the abuse!!

I don't understand it, but I know what it was... Denial. If you act like something never happened, then it didn't. Something that did not happen will have no effect on the rest of any of the participants lives. Denial from family is the greatest danger sexually abused children suffer. It invalidates them, makes them feel as though they have no value to others and therefore no value to themselves. In his denial he may believe if he takes on a mentor role in this other child's life it will cancel the effect of the abuse. He doesn't understand that he has abdictated his role as protector for his daughter. It is a sad fact that in doing this is believes he protects her further than he could any other way. While allowing her to feel rejected by him in favor of her abuser. Denial hurts, both the one doing the denying and the one who feels rejected because of the denial.

HELL NO! I cant understand this father sorry to say but i think its ill she has lost her pride and her father he should be there for her !

Many kids nowadays are really abused, but I really cant understand why the father took the side of the abuser? I dont wanna judge anyone because i dont know what really happened. But if it was true, he may be the worst father anyone has seen.

MAYBE YOU SHOULD INVOLVE PROTECTIVE SERVICES. YOU CAN DO IT ANNONYMOUSLY. IF HER FATHER ISNT DOING ENOUGH MAYBE YOU SHOULD. WE HAVE TO BE THE VOICES FOR THE ONES WHO CANT BE HEARD

Hi there, just wondering how valuable it may be to look at it from the father's side? Two thoughts. One, could he be thinking "perhaps if I provide a better support to this guy (the counsin) he may be less likely to commit this kind of crime again" ? Or maybe he is actually keeping an eye on him? Two, if he is like my father, I think he would be feeling so much guilt about letting his daughter get hurt (even though perhaps there was nothing he could do) that he struggles with that guilt every time he sees her? Personally I think that there is usually another side to these things, and incidents like this are always going to make people behave differently - how would you react? Cheers Dexter