Bad experience with dating...

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I've known this guy for about 5 years I'm guessing. I've always had an interest in him and eventually felt like I loved him. Maybe I really don't though...Anyways, we dated a few times and I pushed him outta my life for about a year because of how manipulative he was. He'd make me feel like everything that went wrong between us was my fault. He'd somehow make me feel guilty and I was apologizing for things he should be apologizing for. Eventually, he'd met one of my friends online and told her to tel me hi, so I added him to msn and said hi to him. He told me that they hardly ever talked and that she was too depressed for him and that he didn't wanna be anything but a friend to her. She said differently so I didn't know which to believe. I soon found out that I couldn't trust or believe either of them. She wanted him and she'd told me she was interested in him but he told me he was interested in me. Well I didn't want anything to do with him because she wanted him, liked him, whatever it was...So I backed down or tried to at least and it was like she kept pushing me to talk to him, date him. I thought "She's not gonna shut up until we do start talkin again." So eventually we did. So we talked for a couple months and soon found out that those two were sleeping together. Needless to say, I broke whatever I had with him off and quit being her friend. I didn't need a backstabbing friend, right? I was there for this girl though. she talked about suicide, about all of her guy problems, family problems, about how many people had hurt her, her drug problems, I was there to lsiten to all of that and support her, give her a word of advice. then she turns around and does this. So then me and another friend of mine, Sonya, went and hung out with him on his lunch hour and I guess he sorta hit on her when he got back home and had talkd to her online. A few nights ago she left him a comment on myspace that said "Guys like you make girls like me wanna turn lesbian." So the next night he messaged her and asked her what the hell it was about. She told him it was about the way he's treated me over the years. He told her that he cared for me, loved me at one point and did realize that he'd hurt my feelings. He said that if that girl had of been my friend, she wudnt have slept with him. But also, if he ever cared for me, presently, or in the past, he wouldn't have slept with her either knowing I was as close to her as I felt I was. Bad experience all together, so we just don't talk much anymore. Anybody else had bad experiences like this?