When by my action I will harm any one, I should ask my elders ??

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When by my action I will harm my wife, before doing the act, I should ask my elder who is bigger in age or to whole world. Should I ask my Guru/Teacher who is more learned than me or to one who is bigger age is second question. When I should meet master, when I should meet elder is another question ?? This is a question for a wife to ask to her husband only. Thanks