i have 4 yr old that wont listen to me and listen to his dad
By jessicamom24
@jessicamom24 (391)
United States
December 16, 2006 10:45am CST
well my son he just won't listen to me and when i puish me he just tell me that he wants to kill me or that he hates me but when his dad tells him sosmthing then he goes and does it and now my daughter is trying to do that but she doesn't quiet undrstand it yet
1 response
@mntcmn (37)
• United States
17 Dec 06
You son has learned he can twist your round his finger by doing what he does. My guess would be that when he abuses you, you try to talk him out of being abusive. He understands very, very well that his words put you under stress. What you must do is stop his ploy from working. Now, he gets much more reward for abusing you than from obeying you. Reverse that and he'll change. You may need some help because you may not understand what you are doing.
