I have to ask this Question. What do you think about this?

damn. well maybe she got raped n the baby was the result n she just couldnt bring herself to tell u that. or maybe they did use protection n it wasn't 100% effective. or maybe...there r alot of reasons why she could have had an abortion. u really dont know. n maybe its just not something u tell someone u haven't seen in a while. i dont think its right to judge someone from a simple answer like that. im sure there are way more things that she just couldnt get into with u. but yeah if not then i dont think thats cool. if she didnt like the guy she shouldnt have sleep with him.

It was definately wrong..If u dont like the father of ur baby, it is not the baby's fault..It shows how careless and selfish that person can be...i am very sorry to say, but ur frnd does not deserve to be a mother at all...

I don't think that having an abortion is justifiable just for not liking the father, like you said..she slept with the guy! It's not like she would've had to have gotten into a relationship with the guy, but she would've had to have shared parential rights if he was suited to be a father.

Some view abortion as something bad, whist others prefer to believe that as long as the fetus is not a fully formed baby, it is ok. Then there are others who believe, as long as you are pregnant, abortion is sinful. So, it all depends on which group of thought you belong to. My personal opinion is that once you get pregnant, keep the child. Children are always fun to have around and when you get old and they mature, at least you have someone close to talk to intelligently when noone else want to talk to you (coz you are then senile and all) But of course I am a man, with this opinion. Ladies might view it defferently as they are the one giving birth and delivery is not an easy or exciting experience, trust me I know, I went thru 2 with my wife and though I am not the one delivering, I feel for her...

that's very wrong... 1. she slept w/ a guy she doesn't like 2. she didn't even use protection 3. she had an abortion

I just whant to say that your friend hase tahen a very bad deccision.

I condemn what you friend did. Why did she slept with the person she did not liked? If everything happened when she was liking this person and then she started disliking him then she should have continued with the pregnancy and then got the person to task. That would have been better.

That's really not the reason why people have abortions, I'm sure she was just not ready for a child, if she's going to act like that heck it's good that she terminated the pregancy, she might not have liked the child. Who knows maybe things are better that way for her.

I don't want to be judgmental or anything like that. but abortion, for me, is a very serious offense, it's murdering an unborn child, and i think that your friend may not have an idea what happens when babies get aborted. there are a lot of sites here that graphically present what really happens in abortion and if your friend could have seen these sites, she'd probably regret having submitted herself to have an abortion.

Perhaps...but lets logically think about this (I am not advocating for or against abortion here) but would you really want a child to be raised in a home where there would be such animosity and immaturity on the part of the parents? Is this not a perfect way to ruin a child's life? However ridiculous and immature the reason was, at least she isn't going to make a child suffer because of her mistake. I am sick of woman having kids and then treating them like crap because they can't provide, they hate the father, they are too inexperienced to know what motherhood entails, etc... The fact is that yeah she "could" have done those things, but she didn't. A child shouldn't have to suffer because of it. Perhaps she made the right choice after all.

i think that your friend had taken a wrong decision...the kid isn't the father..

Abhor ABORTION! It is dammed illegal and people (the parent or the doctor) who abort the birth of a child is committing a Great SIN! It does not matter whether it is still a fetus or what, any union of a man and a woman for pro-creation is still a person unborn. If you commit abortion, you are killing an unborn child, and that is against the law of God, not mentioning the government. Just picture yourself as being the unborn child and your being born into a beautiful world was just cancelled by a irresponsible mother or doctor that carries out the abortion. It is just not fair to the unborn child. Abortion should be banned everywhere, in all nations, in all religions and in any form of government because it is againts the law of nature and GOD.

is it legal in your country to abort babies? i agree with you that if she does not the father, she wouldnt have slept with her in the first place.

This would of course depend on the situation. If they were in love and then fell out of love and then she found out she was pregnant then I'm not one to say, for Im a man. If it was the way it seems and she just slept with him for a one night or a couple of weeks, then she is definatley wrong and so is he. They should have used protection. I understand that its hard for someone who has kids and loves them to understand this about people but sometimes they cant fathom the love a child brings to their life, so class it as more of a burden than anything else. If she had've kept the child she would have had help from the government. Some think that this is also wrong. I suppose it would have to be up to the individual to choose.

I also agree with what most people have said.. I am not for abortion for birth control. Most women do get abortions for this reason though. I have to say, I have learned so much from my children, they are my greatest joy, and I really enjoy having them around.

I get so mad when I hear of all these people killing innocent unborn babies!!! So many women out there want children so badly, and can't get pregnant while the ones who do get pregnant for lack of irresponsibility, just get rid of their child like a used tissue paper. It gets me so frustrated!! What your friend did is plain and simple SELFISH. She only thought of herself, not of the father (whom i presume does not know what she did) or of the unborn child that was growing inside her.

WOW - I can't even believe she said that. If she chose to sleep with him and then didn't use protection and had an abortion than she should keep it to herself for being stupid. Not everyone shares the same views and on a controversial topic like this she should just stay quiet. Personally I never ask anyone if they have kids. If they do, they will tell me. I have a few friends who can not have kids and have tried to adopt for years but have been unsuccessful. This question hurts them so much because when they say No, the person usually asks why not? Then they have to face it all over again that either they or their husband is unable to make a baby, etc. I let people tell me if they have kids or I don't bring it up

I do not think abortion justifies the fact that she dislikes the guy. Your friend should have taken some form of protection. I am definately against abortion. A life has been wasted.

I am never "for" abortion as contraception. Having an abortion simply because you don't like who you chose to screw, is a really crappy thing to do, IMO. Of course what do I know? I just don't get some people.

Well,that guy might be a real jerk and she probably slept with him out of a moment of folly.