What Do Women Look For In A Single Man?

Personally, I go for appearance first. He need not be very handsome but at least pleasant to my eyes. Then it'll be his personality. His family values and attitude towards friends are also very important. Practically, his qualifications and the job he's holding count too. Finally, we must be able to connect and have mutual 'chemistry'. I don't agree that the first date should be a special one because it'll make both party feel tense and uneasy. I prefer a casual meeting when you can chat like old friends and be ourselves.

Decent women are looking for their Knight and Shining Armour, a man who has broad shoulders to listen, a man who shows how much he loves her not only with words but in actions, a man who can be strong in times of weakness, a man who would not take her for granted, a man who would say no to disloyalty and a man who has the balls to mean what he says and does it. Money and looks doesn't matter.... If I may rephrase Pascal's quote.....If a woman loves a man for his built and handsomeness, does she love him? No; for the small-pox, which destroys his physical appearance without killing her, causes her love to cease. And if any one loves you for your judgment or your memory, does he really love you? No; for you can lose these qualities without ceasing to be. When someone loves you- I mean truly loves you- appearance will matter the least its your character and heart that counts. A truly remarkable woman would rather choose a heart of gold than running after you for looks and wealth......... Women want a man that makes them feel special and loved, liek they have your heart, and you will do anything for them. You don't have to spend a bunch of money, or give up your poker night, just melt a little when she comes in the room, and continue to be a man she can respect, so she feels special about being with you. Someone who can make them laugh. Someone who can make them feel "adored". And a good ol' southern accent doesn't hurt! God Bless America!Someone whom they can rely on and one who can take all the sadness of theirs and turn the environment to white and love them all day long.

as you said all depends on the person ,but to tell you am a man,there are several reason why woman go to single guys ,one is they are looking for satisfaction,and strenght and some other things that are lacking in their man

For me, What i m looking for in a single man is comfortable and safety feeling. And a man that we can share everything about our feeling and sense to him. Its good things than a man can understand what we feel and sense, coz woman is fully loaded with sense and emotion.

What do women look for in a single guy? Well, he's actually got to be single. Intelligence is a huge turn on for me. Funny. I've got a little bit of shallowness in me, so he's got to be moderately good looking, fit, clean/neat/tidy. Not a slob. He's got to be able to smile and control himself. He has to respect my friends/family... I've found the one I'm spending the rest of my life with, and he's all of that.. He's able to handle his finances properly, and knows what he wants.++Confidence is key. That's my perfect man.

what i feel is girls most importantly looks for stability in relationship.. she looks for security that is a priority..if u r looking for long term relationship u must be trustworthy.. apart from this to initiate a relationship looks money your sense of humour is a neccesity.. a humoruos smart looking cool guy may impress many at first go.. but i fell foe long term relationship requirements r diffrent..

Well...if i am single and looking for a single guy to date with then the 1st important thing is that guy should have occupation and good behaviour.the others is depend on what u want.i agree that 1st date should be special because its a start for the next step.if not special everybody would end after the 1st date of course :)

Things to do before first date and during a first date: Girls look for a guy that listens and remember what they say. Have a same discussion topic. Don't have wondering eyes when she is talking. Keep looking at her eyes.

women look for someone who is honest,trustworthy,caring,has a personality,knows how to treat a women,has respect,treats his mom good,does not believe in hitting a women,is easy to talk to,is a good listener you get the point dont you?and i believe the first date should be special remember one thing though do not talk about a ex girlfriend or your past relationships if you do you just blew it you only get one chance.

Are you complaining that you are getting so much attention!! Enjoy it while it lasts. Dating single men is less messier than dating married men. Atlest there is no fear of ruining a family. All women want her man for herself. She cannot share him with a wife or a girlfriend so maybe that is why they go for a single guy.

i dunno at all. I dont know what is on the mind of a girl

May be hIs a s s or wht..:P

to be honest, it mainly due to pocessiveness, a women never like to share anything with others,when it is a very important thing in her life and i would day that y she would prefer the single man.

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It is sad to say, but women are just so picky. Maybe that has to do with the changing times, and them knowing that they now have much more of a choice as far as employment and other things that maybe their moms or grandmother didn't have. That being said, I really don't know of any woman with self respect that wants a guy without a job. Women like being independent yes, but they really don't want to be the caretaker of their boyfriend or in the future, husband. So goals and employment come high on just about any womans list. Then there are the shallow ones that will only date men who make X amount each month. Those are the kind you would not want to date anyways though if you value your bank account. Personally, I think a guy needs to be a bit laid back, have a sense of humor, be GENUINE (lies are a no no), and above all feel confident. Confidence goes a LONG way with girls. Most girls aren't attracted to clingy, dependent, or whiny men. Good Luck!

I don't go too much for the looks...cute guys are enough for me. What turns me really on is a guy with ooozing with intelligence .... knows how he carries himself, his being witty and with a very good sense of humor.

i agree with you that all woman are different. it depends on their objectives at that point in time. are they looking for someone to have for a little bit, but not marry? are they looking for "Mr. Right Now"? or are the looking for someone who they can spend the rest of their lives with? i fall in the last catagory and here's what i looked for... What women (I) look for in a signle guy? -A man who will compliment me(not physically, but that helps, but personality wise) in other words...someone who completes them..(how cheesy is that) -A man who will make me laugh and smile -A man who is honest and true -A family man, loves children -someone Fun and not too boring -Someone who can relate to me, common interests -Someone who was a personality that i would love to see in my children (and also the physical characteristic i want in my children) and I do agree that the first date be special. me and my husbands first 'official' date, we just walked around a mall and talked all night. thats what we liked to do. although we did get a little side tracked when going to get a bite to eat...it was a night i would never forget.

as someone said, they really have to be SINGLE!! Also, while you don't necessarily want a rich guy, a tight, mean fellow is a real turn off. Most importantly, if they can make you laugh. If they can be sensitive without being girlie, this is a plus. Personal hygiene is soooo important! As if you didn't know this but just in case. I think a needs to be himself as anything else is obviously a fake. Quiet confidence as opposed to loud brashness? And lastly, someone who can listen.

Women want security. They will run around with "bad boys" when they are young and foolish, but when they are looking to settle down they will pick the guy who is honest, clean and hardworking to raise their children with.

strong, cute, can feel safe with, isent boring.. everyone is diffrent and it really matters on everything its kinda tough to say