Which will you prefer "A love merriage or An arrange merriage"

A marrige with the one you love of course!

Most love marriages fail and Most arranged marriages do not work. The solution is arranged love marriage. Let the boy and girl love each other and inform their parents about it and the parents shall arrange the marriage of the two. This seem to be some compromise towards retaining marriage as an institution.

love marriage for me their is no gurantee that an arrange marriage would ever work out.

I WILL PREFER ARRANGED MARRIAGE WITH THE GIRL I LOVE.I CANNOT MARRY A GIRL WHOM I DONT EVEN KNOW BECAUSE THE TIMES HAVE CHANGED AND MARRYING A GIRL WHOM I DONT KNOW IS I DONT THINK CORRECT.BECAUSE TO LIVE A GOOD AND HAPPY LIFE U SHOULD KNOW EACH OTHER AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER.

Always embark upon one of the most important relationships you will have (besides with a child you influence)with LOVE. Love makes people grow, love is a light in the darkness, love believes when there seems to be no hope. Always marry because you love.

WELL IT IS NOT THAT WHICH MARRIAGE IS GOOD WETHER ARRANGED OR LOVE.BOTH THE COUPLE SHOULD HAVE IS A SENSE OF UNDERSTANDING AND TRUST.BUT I WOULD RATHER GO FOR LOVE MARRIAGE

well sometimes we have to make decisions that may not seem logical to others.and sometimes we may even have to scarifice love for happiness.would you have your friend keep on pining away for this girl,dont you want him to move on withn his life? rankly arranged marriage sounds like a good idea.both the girl's side as wella s the groom's side have an idea of each other and now they have some time to get to know each other before they tie tyhe knot.that sounds like a good idea.whats more any an arranged marriage is like a formation of a friendship that soon develops into love so i wish your friwend the best of luck and congrats on his impending nupitals! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arranged_marriage http://www.equalitytoday.org/edition3/marriage.html http://www.english.emory.edu/Bahri/Arr.html

It's depends on which condition it happens...

Definitely a love marriage. There's nothing good than marrying the one you love. Marriage with pure love have the great foundation in building a family.

i will prefer arrange marrige as they are more sucessful in comparision to love marriage

I know a number of people who have arranged marriages and it works really well for them. I think it's cultural whether or not that kind of thing will work for you. I grew up believing I didn't need a partner, so it would be really hard for me to be happy with somebody that I didn't chose myself. I got really lucky though, and met somebody I am really compatable with.

I was in a marriage that was for love, suposedly. I would be up for an arranged marrige, though, because the concept is that your parents and your intended's apretns know you, your social circle and your family traditions. I have known A LOT of arranged marriages that have turned out much more faithful and happy than those not arranaged.

Love marriages defines itself that u love a person who is already well known to u.It offer more independence and freedom as compared to arranged marriages where the girl/boy is chosen by the parents so there is pressure to conform to parental expectations.One of the usual questions against an arranged marriage is that how can you marry somebody you don't know. Knowing somebody before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires. This way they are better adjusted in the marriage. Coming to arranged marriages,it says that u have to love a person who is strange 2 u.but ya arrabge marriage offer more protection, security to the women. There is not much pressure on the women to look like models. Parents employ maturity and wise judgment when choosing suitable spouses for their children. Sometimes it helps to rely on another person's opinion and experience when selecting one's partner especially when the people marrying are young and need guidance and advice in marrying a suitable person. It becomes difficult therefore to predict the ideal sort of marriage. So ultimately it is up to the individual to decide whether he wants to have a love or an arranged marriage after all it is a question of being happy in love.

Always love merriage of course. But i know ur situation because i'm Chinese and some of mine friends face that dilemma. But if i were u, i'll try as hard as i can, course it is LOVE i am seeking NOT only life parter.

AN ARRANGW MARRIAGE

I belive in love marriage to take right, but arrange marriage is not cool cause the couple is not in love they just marriage cause the families want !

i would prefer for the arranged marriage only

As per my thinking i say...we should let the parents decide wat kind of a boy is good for us and den we have to get to know that person on a daily basis like a frnd and get close...then you realise if that person isright or wrong for you then the decision is right there.... I think so becuz if you treat that person as a friend you will know the reality of tht person...i mean to get to know the person on a personal basis cuz its the issueof your whole life....

i prefer arrange marriage

you should always marry for love not because someone told you to or because it is in your best interest. I feel sorry for your friend for not being able to marry the one he loves.