define the criteria of a real friend
@ideas4worldwelfare (223)
India
December 17, 2006 9:46am CST
well, from the beginning of our life,we start making friends,but few of them remain friend for a lifetime.It is more like a travel through time every new destination and partners keep on changing.sometimes we also face mental turmoils from our close friends.Here i would like to know what are the qualities of a real friend and it would be better if anyone can define a real friend......
4 responses
@Eisenherz (2908)
• Portugal
28 Jan 07
A friend is a person on whom you can confidently rely to help pull you through the hard times, and hold you accountable for your actions. A friend is loyal, and a brother is born in a time of need. A friend will not judge you for who you are, but they will help you to grow in life.
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@swarn47 (1706)
• India
17 Dec 06
Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behaviour between two or more social entities. This article focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating on a consistent basis:
• the tendency to desire what is best for each other.
• sympathy and empathy.
• honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth.
• mutual understanding.
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than acquaintanceship, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and acquaintances. Friendship and acquaintanceship can be thought of spanning across the same continuum.
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship
I hope after reading the above, the criteria will be clear to you.