My former sweetheart WON $14 Million in the LOTTO! What should I do?
By viking888
@viking888 (390)
Philippines
December 17, 2006 1:37pm CST
I had a former sweetheart that won the lotto and I do not know if I should make friends again with her or ignore her. Do I congratulate her? I am afraid that she might think that I am only interested in her because she won the lottery. --- Confused!!
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4 responses
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
18 Dec 06
well, are you friends with her before she won the money? if yes, then why not call her and be happy for her? if no, it's better not to congratulate her at all!
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@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
18 Dec 06
hmm...if you guys do meet up when she's in your country, i dont see why not give her a call...it's just to congratulate her anyway...dont think too much..if you feel like wishing her, then go ahead!!
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@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
Quite encouraging eunice! Will email her this week to really get a feel of her sentiments. I got word from her friends she is very busy, really busy! Money do change a person's life pretty fast ah?
@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
Yes, we were still in good relations and in fact she visits the country once in a while, and I took her for the rounds of the city. But recently for about a year now, I haven't called, emailed or even sent her a postcard.
Just afraid she might think that it is because of her new wealth that I again am trying to call or make contact with her. Wouldn't you also think the same way if I hadn't called you up for almost a year?
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Dec 06
There is no harm in Congratulating her at all but then after that leave it to her if she wants to keep in cintact with you that way she could not say that you are only interrested in the Money
Did you break up in good or bad feelings thats the other thing aswell
@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
Your posts have been encouraging, and I am getting the boldness to do just that. But as I say, just waiting for the air to clear..... hmm.... you'll hear from me!
@chimex4real2k2 (1853)
• Nigeria
17 Dec 06
well u can congatulate her it does not hurt to congratulate someone u once loved..
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@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
I will, but am just trying to be more gutsy in doing it. That is why I am asking for advise from the members MyLot. :)
@viking888 (390)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
I am genuinely interested in congratulating her, and also would like to offer advise as she, as I had known her for a long time, is a very undecisive person and I just care that she will lose that money in no time.
No, I have no interest in her money. I make my own and it is thru my own hardwork. I just dont want to appear I become interested because of her new found wealth...!
