Man-Hunting... Care to share your secrets?
By shmoodles
@shmoodles (69)
Canada
December 17, 2006 5:30pm CST
For any woman who has sucessfully managed to woo her man - and would be kind enough to share tips - this is the place to do it. Be open. Let's talk about what actually works,
I'll start
1. Proximity - if you are in proximity to the man on a regular basis, there is a better likelihod of hooking up
2. The small deft touch, reach out to brush of a little bit of lint from the top of his shoulder, or pull off an imaginary hair. Men who are single are starved for physical contact. If you are asking for the time, lean in, and then lightly touch his wrist when you look at his watch...
3.Rythmn matching... notice that every human being has their own particular rythmn, how fast they breath, how they might tap their hand, or fingers or feet. Find that rythm and mimic it in his presence, but not obviously. He will pick up on it in a subsconscious way.
4. Modalities - try to determine whether he is a visual, auditory, or tactile modality. Alter your vocab so it fits with his modality. ie If he is visual say 'I see how that could work" - if he's auditory "I hear ya" or "it sounds clear to me" and if tactile then "I feel good about this" etc....
Ok... I've started you off.. share your secrets.
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