why your partner can't be consistent?
By dmanuel
@dmanuel (411)
December 17, 2006 6:32pm CST
do you remember the "courtship" times? the first few dates, first few laughters? why does it only happen in the beginning? why does it have to subside? are we really not capable of loving the same person the same way or maybe more? does it really have to be stagnant at some point? why do we lose the "it" factor?
2 responses
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
18 Dec 06
i truthfully have to clue. i've been with my hubby to be for 4 years. and its not like it was in the beginning. but we still love each other. but its not like the first few months. and it probally never will
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
18 Dec 06
i've been with my bf for only 3 months...but he's very very sweet and an angel to me..i dont know whether it will subside or not gradually but at the moment, he's still the sweet, gentle and loving guy that i know. i guess sometimes, when two people are together and both took each other for granted, they will feel as if their relationship is stagnant. i think it's then time to bring the 'romance' back into the relationship.