Do your kids use foul language
By kulpreet1
@kulpreet1 (116)
India
December 18, 2006 3:12am CST
The use of abusive words or foul language is becoming increasingly common among the younger generation today. Most of us have, at some point, experienced a child swearing but, when it comes to dealing with it, we often don't know what to do
Do you use bad language?
Be honest with yourself. If you are in the habit of using bad words, stop it at once.
How to combat lingual disasters
Although you would like to rub soap into your child's mouth or give them one tight slap to kick the habit, today's kids are more aggressive and conscious. They will use the words more often just to anger you.
Here are a few tip to help you nip it in the bud.
Identify the sources
Observe your child's daily routine and the people he interacts with. A checklist of the probable sources has already been mentioned in this article. By identifying the source, the use of abusive language can be minimised.
Explain the meaning of the bad word
By explaining the meaning of the word; your child might be embarrassed to use the word again.
Ignore
If your child is very young (two to four years of age) and doesn't understand what he's saying, ignoring the word can work sometimes. If he persists, then pick a one-line response that's emotionally neutral, such as 'Those aren't very nice words to say.'
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2 responses
@lilmeowsy (685)
• Philippines
18 Dec 06
Yes, I use bad language every once in awhile. I say these things especially when I am pissed off about something. But it's not a big habit of mine. I do not have kids yet but when I have some I do not want them saying bad words. It's inappropriate, I know. They can swear all they want when it's really needed. (Like it's the only thing that can make them feel calm when they have problems or something like that!) But I still wouldn't approve of it. I will really get mad at them if they do it. Besides, I have to set a good example for my kids so that they will also be good and not swear in public or in front of me and my husband. ^^