Fantasies

I personally don't agree with the whole bondage thing. Anyone can control and mentally abuse anyone and in the long run it really messes you up psychologically to be treated or to treat someone like that. That's my opinion.

i would prefer if females should be in the dominating position

I don't think it's a matter of gender! What is the difference between a boy's interest in bondage and a girl's interest in bondage? The healthy, social idea of bondage is "Safe, Sane, Consensual", meaning that everything done is done with both parties consent and that safety is always at the forefront of the activity. I wholeheartedly think that a girl should make up her own informed decision as to whether bondage is the right step for her. Also, it's not a permanent thing. If you decide to try it, and don't like it, it's not like you have to keep doing it. Asking if a girl should go into bondage is similar to asking if a boy should get a tattoo. They're knowingly putting themselves through pain just to get the pleasure of having a picture (that they could have drawn on) put permanently on their body. Also, to clarify, Bondage and Kink (as a community) are WHOLLY different than some person tying up victims for personal gratification and to (actually) harm someone else. There's a difference between pain for pleasure, and pain for harm.