Children!!!do you really need them!!!!??

I think having children is the most awesome experience a woman can have. It is like a miracle! To have children would be to not have life. Without children how can the world go on. What a selfish thought to not want to do for your children but instead keep it all for yourself. I would have had a dozen children if I had been able. I was only blessed with one and because of him he made my reason for being here on earth complete!I lOVE giving to him today, yes he is grown, he has moved to another country, he is married, but my LOVE for him is just as strong as when he was here. Maybe I am lucky, he never forgets me and is always wanting to talk to me. I do not expect him to cater to me or really expect antyhing from him other than be happy and have a good life.

I can't help but to think that you are a very selfish person. From all the reasons you pointed out why wouldn't you want to give to your child. And hello, if we had no children then there would be no population. Were you spoiled growing up? Who care if the child grows up and married and then don't talk to you as much. If you raised them correctly they will talk to you whenever and a lot more. But just like you, they have their own lives. And now that they are grown you can do a lot more with your time. As they grew up so do you. I think you're a selfish person and maybe you don't deserve any children because you might be a bad mother with mentality about children that you have.

Yes, we need children. (From my Christian point of view) Couples´ mission in life is, to implement new souls into new bodies and improve their own souls until they are mature for eternity. So .... not having children means, to skip half of the mission in life; and the other part, meaning the couples´ souls´ improvement, mostly is delayed when they instead of having children just want tp enjoy their lives. By the way: Isn´t really bad, if children learn that parents´ funds are limited. I have four children, and I couldn´t fulfill all their wishes. And wasn´t a bad thing this.

Its just a matter of opinion whether or not you want kids. I don't know where I would be now if I didn't have my son. I could have easily went down the wrong path without having him to take care of. I believe he saved me but everyone is different and there is nothing wrong with not wanting kids.

You do realize that if everyone followed your advice, it would mean the end of humanity, right? What a ridiculous thing to propose!

I do! I see nothing but an abundance of wonderful things from our children. I love them and if it was not for the lack of money, I'd have 10 of them. Of course I can't love them enough and they me. I can't see them treating me like an alien, of course I would never regret having them or loving them like I do because they grow up and move on.

well i think it cool to have kids say one and at most two, come to think of it if your parents had these thoughts that you're having before they gave birth to you, i wonder if you would have existed. think about it.

yes.coz why child or our kida is next generation of earth not for u or for anyone but for human being.

you need money to have children

Of course we need children. Children grow up and leave thats what they do. We have them and take care of and try our best to raise them right.Then we set them free to be their own person its the circle of life. Sometimes it is hard but none of us would be here with kids.We ALL were once children.But if its a personal choice as to wether you wanna have kids. I have 2 of my own and sometimes its hard especially with my son he is a hand full but I wont change having them for the world

I don't think it is a right decision. What if your parents also thought like that? You wont be here in this world. If everyone in this world thinks as you thought then this world would be inhabited by animals and plants and no humans. Can you think of such situation? Rather than a personal affair giving birth to a child is a mean to balance the ecological system. What you said above is right. Our children would grow up, gets educated, gets a job. But i don't think every child treats their parents like aliens. May be there are some. But not all. This is what this world is. You should follow its rules to survive.

if our parents having the same thinking that not to have kids,it is wasting time and all,then we would'nt be here to write anything in mylot.kids are the precious gift on earth,after having kid life looks nothing with out kid.

yes ! Why don`t you want to have kids. What happened if your parents didn`t want to make kids. You weren`t . So why losing this opportunities?

Yep.. We do.. well I do.. My Children dont have to know what I go through to make sure they're ok as long as they know that I love them thats more important. Without kids there'd be nothing left of this world.. Kids are awesome.

Are you insane?you could not be normal!!!!if all the people think link you, you wouldnt be here!moroun!

I need them now in order to taking care of me in the future. We don't need them be born when we are no ready t have. We like to have them that they make us happier than living alone. The kids are our last left resource. They are evidence from parents. That make parents tier.

i think all parents would like to fullfill their child's wishes but not to the extent that you will forget what you want for yourself,,,

I know to have children we need to be financially and mentaly ready. But still I want kids so bad. It's about how you educate them. Not all kids are rebel or naughty. If you know how to handle them, I am sure that they'll be the kids you are being proud of. Cheers!

i love children..........thy are the most beautifull gift one can ever have....

I agree with what you have said.....i have a baby and trust me i had one because conventionally its the right thing to do...but lots of my friends are still undecided and i respect ther feelings completely.