I don`t know what to do!?

@Chiriac (286)
Romania
December 18, 2006 11:12am CST
Hey, I am going out of my mind over the passed couple of weeks over this girl I work with. Her name is Annie and we get on great, I have known her for a couple of months, a short time I know but I can't stop thinking about her! She is the last thought in my head when I go to sleep and the first thought when I wake up, I never thought I would say such a cheesy line but it is the truth. The problem is in about 3 weeks I am quitting work and going back up to University for my final year, this girl is on my mind constantly and I have even had the irrational thought of staying at work and commuting to university all because of her! She is the only thing that I will really miss and it acutally makes me feel sick that I won't see her again! But she has a boyfriend but she doesn't talk about him alot and she flirts with me and seems to get jealous when I am talking to any other girls at work. But is it worth telling her? Should I do the long distance relationship thing? I am only 45 minutes away but I really need to concentrate on my final year? Is it worth attempting a long term relationship when I will hardly see her? I really like this girl and would hate to lose her but am I fooling myself about the whole thing? Should I just forget it and be satisfied with being her friend?
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4 responses
pufitza_mison
@pufitza_mison (627)
• Romania
26 Dec 06
if you relly like her then you must say that to her...is better if you know what she thincks about you, and then the whole thinck's will be mych easier. I thinck you can manage with the university and the girl too.If he really lickes you then he will understand you and he will wait for you so i thinck is better to tell her.in life i thinck you must take the chance so go one and tell her everithing before it will be to late.Good luck
Chiriac
@Chiriac (286)
• Romania
26 Dec 06
Thanks for your support, i`ve got to think about it.
humaaaa
@humaaaa (1386)
• Pakistan
19 Dec 06
don't tell her anything, just get as much closer to her as possible. Tell her sweet things that she likes, tell her sweety your wearing a nice dress, or sometimes tell her your looking nice. every time you meet her, greet calling a name like sweety, or may be something what ever you like. give her clues, and she will get to know your interested and if you get responces from other side than think the way is clear for you.
Chiriac
@Chiriac (286)
• Romania
21 Dec 06
Thanks for all, i will try to do something, now i dont know what, but i will se.
suedarr
@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
18 Dec 06
Talk to her about your feelings. If you don't you will end up regretting it for the rest of your life. Since she is not married I say go for it, there really is nothing to lose and perhaps a lot to be gained. Good lucks!! And do update us on your decision.
parthasarathi
@parthasarathi (446)
• India
19 Dec 06
Respond to your heart,listen to your heart, and believe me it will be a better decision rather then being confused. be blest,tc.