why most people change over time?

Romania
December 19, 2006 2:56am CST
in my life i had the worst disapointments from the persons that i love the most.And other people, who i don't love, but they are colleagues or just knowing them, are the same person all the time.people that i luse tio love and thought they are the best friends, they changed over time, they are now selfish, they think more about their person.they forgot what scrifice means, for a friend.but they knew it in the past.
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@paulnet (748)
• India
19 Dec 06
yaa most ppl change with time, coz with the passage of time everyone develops new priorities/goals to his life and in order to cherish that he needs fresh ppl with the same interests who can help him to achieve his goal. So in this process you can say it a selfishness person evolves out of it. The one thing is that if you don't do that you are left behind from others. Now its the trend of the society, so you can do nothing about it. But what i personally feel its the wrong trend and if someone loves you then you must give Love in return and don't hurt someone in the process of Money making.
• Romania
19 Dec 06
paul net you are SO right about the "money making process".great answer.thanks
• Romania
10 Mar 07
i have many experinces with this kind of people.i was disapointed too and i'm asking why those persons that you love the most...i do not have very much friends and i don't want to have more.why?because i don't need that.i want to have a few friend but wich not disapoint me.people change very much most of all because they are growing, the became mature or they are forgeting some things in the past that things since you were a child.maybe all this happend because this life change and they change togheter.I give up because we do things like that without realising why are we doing this.maybe we don't want to change, we don't want to forget,it's just this life who make us selfish.