My Bad Habit- Can you help me??
By independent1
@independent1 (309)
India
December 19, 2006 3:31am CST
Hello Friends,
I have a bad habit, I envy everyone around me. I dunno if you call this a bad habit of a mental disorder, but I am jealous of everyone around me. When my friend;s get a rise in Salary, I am jealous of them, when someone in my team gets accolades of good work I feel jealous. This is affecting my confidence level. Many times I feel lonely and cut myself from the whole world.
Do you feel the same?? Have you ever experienced similar behaviour and have come out of it???
Need your help.. thanks
2 responses
@independent1 (309)
• India
26 Dec 06
if I could not help me myself, how can I expect you to help me. anyways, thanks for responding.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
19 Dec 06
i dont think that it's mental disorder or stuff like that...but i seriously think that you are someone who's very very insecure. it's common to felt a twinge of envy for someone who is luckier or better off..but not when it's for everyone!! try to read more books that could boost your self-esteem, my friend! always remember that everyone is different in this world. You are unique in your own special way! Take Care!
@independent1 (309)
• India
19 Dec 06
Thanks for your response, sometimes I feel guilty about what I feel and think about others. I try to indulge myself in some daily chores and find that I am cutting myself away from everyone. Many of my friends are busy building their carriers and I cannot share my problems with anyone. Many times it so happens, if you share your problems or issues with your friends, they feel that we are incapable and weak.
Anyways, I somehow have to fight this and will.
thanks for response have a wonderful day.
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