Back to your ex-partner....is it okay?!
By kurpix
@kurpix (607)
Indonesia
December 19, 2006 3:49am CST
My ex-boyfriend contacted me after almost 3 years disappear. He apologized to me about what he's done 3 years ago. Now, he said to me that he still love me. and wants to come back to me.
what should i do? is it okay to back to your ex-partner? meanwhile, i'm still single now :)
please share your opinion here!
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56 responses
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
20 Dec 06
It depends if you still have feelings for him, and want him back. If you do, you can give him a chance if you trust him. But only one chance, as everyone is entitled to make a mistake. But don't do it for dependency, or because you don't want to be alone. Good luck.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Yes, only one chance and that's it, or it will become a pattern. Good luck dear.
@rikpallav (1242)
• India
20 Dec 06
I would say if you can live without him for so long without having any problem then you sould not go back to him and start off a relationship though you can be friends... as if he can do it once then there is also a possibility of doing it again.. if you belive that you cannot live without him and he really feels the same then you can start off the relationship all over again.... think twice before you commit to something..
@jayda_j927tijs (2893)
• Hong Kong
24 Dec 06
Well u should ask yourself,if u are still in love with this guy or not,just go with your guts.
@jesi06 (279)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I would first find out why he lied then if it really was a lie. Listen to him, make a choice, but only give him 1 shot. Remember "If it happens once shame on you, but if it happens twice shame on me" I myself didn't listen to that, and I was in TWO relationships where it became apparent there was a revolving door. YOU DON'T WANT THIS...BELIEVE ME!
@janeshrathod (104)
• India
23 Dec 06
it is always great feeling to get back, to patch up since it brings a lot of memories back and you enjoy it the most since u missed it so much when he was not around but just be careful of the thing that drifted u apart the last time if u can just talk it over and when u talk remember u need to understand to be understood without letting down on self esteem. this will help you to avoid doing similar mistakes
@sundeepm474 (888)
• India
30 Dec 06
It's not a discussion its your life you have to take decision we are not aware of your b/f so how could we judge but think twice before taking a decision.
@braveheartpt (3037)
• Portugal
20 Dec 06
If you love him why not, do you ever heard that "sorry seems to be the hardest word"?, so if there´s between you love enough to start again, why not. It´s up to you forgive or not forgive. Love or don´t.
@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
Well if you’re still single and you do still love him then why not. If he is serious enough and you can feel his sincerity then go on. My ex called me also after 2 years of break up but I am married that time already and if ever he wants me back I still don’t want him back because I cant imagine accepting him again after all what he has done. I’m not telling you that you will not accept him again. But on my situation he is not acceptable anymore. Hehehe.. and besides we are of different religion and status in life.
That’s all folks..
@susana25 (341)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
It's up to you girl If you think that you still love him after what he has done to you 3 years ago,Then go for it! But make it sure that this time He will not get hurt you anymore,Be sure that you can trust him for the second time around and for the chance you gave him... anyway good luck and think more time be wise...
@iampabols (93)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
well, there is a famous saying that love is sweeter at the second time around. please give him a second chance....if in the second chance you gave he still break it, then maybe at that time you can now forget him......
@sweetbabe77 (224)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
Well if you love him the same, why not? Love is sweeter the second time around right??Beside everybody deserves a second chance as long you'r ready for it..What you can do is to make this realtionship work this time, if you really love him...
@kulpreet1 (116)
• India
20 Dec 06
if you feel that he should be forgiven and if you feel the same way for him then nothing wrong in going back to him
@idrob2006 (317)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 06
Do you still love him? if you still do, you can consider him again. But you should think about this really carefully before you jump into any decision. For my opinion, once a cheater is always a cheater...
