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as far as the food is concerned, fix your plate and sit down and start eating..once he sees you eating, he will probably ask where his is (like men do) thats when you tell him his legs are not broken..as far as the house and picking up after him is concerned, go on strike..take care of your babies and see how long it takes him to see how valuable you are..then you will get an apology..

You know, for argument sake I'm going to say this. Say you were married to me. This is how home life would be. Really, I would actually do this and did but it was never appreciated. I would get home from work and clean up (if there is some cleaning up to do). Not trying to make you feel like you're not cleaning up, but I do this because that was the way I was raised and want to contribute to the relationship/partnership. I would take the kids off your hands and insist you do whatever you like to relax a bit. Then after that, you would do the same for me. Depending on how many kids, we would share responsibility on putting the kids to sleep and I would again make sure the house was spottless (in preparation for tomorrow). I would also be resposible for making sure supper was done on some days during the week so you would not have to do it everyday. After every supper I would wash the dishes & clear the table weather you liked it or not. Then we would have time to ourselves when the kids were asleep and reconnect on how we are both doing. Communication is key! and make sweet love because things are going great. I hope one day we can say this is happening! Good luck to you!

Yeah, you need to firm while he expects you to do everything. just let him know that you're his equal and can be tough if it demands so, it happens because you have at times submitted to his fancies and now he's taken you for granted. let's hope good sense prevails on him soon. thanks

I fix my kids plate first and then I fix his plate. I just do it b/c I want to. He works hard everyday and provides for us. I just do it because I love him. If I didnt want to he would do it himself.

husbands r just like this..:)