Another Baby!

I´ve read almost all responses to you and people in here give you some good advices, if she has a lack of support of his husband and other family you have to stay closer to her. Sometimes after birth traumas are hard to heal so stay calm don´t be down and give you and your daughter the force that you both need, and remember it´s beautiful to be a mother and a grandmother. Go on best wishes to you, your daughter and yours grandsons.

well !! i would not exactly say that she should get an abortion but i sure hope she knows the kind of responsibilities that are going o come her way in the future,raising children is not an easy task for sure and these days the cost of living is so high that i do not think parents can actually do justice to more than two children..if i had a daughter i would ask her to think about it twice,even if the second baby was a little older,it would be allright to have another one...but right now..third baby...i am not so sure.

Its the best thing to do, give support. The baby is already in this world and dont need bad thoughts about him, on the contrary, all he needs is love, as i always say, a child is a blessing from sky and need all the love we can get. Everything will be ok. By the way, congratulations for the new baby.

if she is ahppy about beeing pregnant then it is NOT ok to say that u are sorry or Not again - unless it is for a joke. She is grown up and she can have as many babies as she like as long as she can provide for them. I do belive that she has a great family though since you have offered her the support that she might need. to have 3 small children is not easy but with help you can do it!

Well I was in the same boat as her, I had my daughter and four months later was pregnant with my son. I know how she about being afraid to let other people know. People can be so judgemental. I hate to hear what people think sometimes espeially when they have no room to talk. As long as she is able to take care her kids along with the father and her children isn't causing the family to be burden with the expenses of taking care of them. Then I think she should just be supported and embraced. It then shouldn't matter if she have up to ten kids, just show her support. The only thing I would suggest now is that after she have this baby, for her to give her body a rest. Enough time to get its strength back. Then after two or three years she wants to have another baby then fine. I hope she have a healthy beautiful baby.

definetly your are right.you know how to deal with your daughter. even i will do the same.

If my children want children and they have the money to support them, than kudos to them.

I think she is really lucky to have such a fantastic supportive mother, I am sure she realises that maybe they should of wait for another one but once its done she cant change it hey! I would never tell my son or daughter not to have anymore children, I wish your daughter and her husband all the luck in the world and i hope it all goes well!

It's her decision to have another I would support her.

Congrats to you and your family.

just support her morally.... she can have kids... if aever she has any problems in the house she can stop with the third kid.... dont let her down...you as a mother have to support her

wow,It's great. Every baby is an angel! Not all of the familly has many children,so don't worried about the population of the world. What should be considered is how to bring them up properly. If their finacial situation is good and if they can spare much time to stay with their kids, I think it's okay!! I think you should feel happy! After all three kids are not so many!

our body matabolism differ,and i strongly belive that it was not her fault.so all u need to do is give her all the support and luv u can give her as a mother.it is going to be very difficult 4her i can tell u da but just be there 4 her.after this baby advice her to seek profetional help on birth control,so dat this situation dosent repeat itself.morover she can now relax and take care of this 3 she has and enjoy being a mother and a wife.gd luck.

Theres nothing wrong to have another child if she was interested in having and they should have the capability to maintain them.I love children very much and i never say not to have children.But we should give birth to one or two thats all because of over population on earth.

any ways now a days it is very rare that people go for their 3rd baby but as your daughter is already pregnent and ofcourse u all must make necessary arrangements for her coming child i think. and children are the god gifts and they must be welcomed to this earth. and all the best to your daughter by me.

i think two kids are enough for a good family,and in india population is now 100crores and i dont think of having three or four children is good for a family........................

Hey. I have a 6 year old, a 5 year old, a 3 year old, and a 10 month old. I was 17 when I had my first baby. Now I am married to the father of my kids and we are happy together. We built our own house and we are still going to college. Tell her that you are there for her. I would love if my mom said that to me. She yells at me when I get pregnant and I dont feel comfortable around her during my pregnancy.

u should support her after all u know wat motherhood is.........she needs ur good wishes.

Well I would never tell my son not to have more kids or to have kids. I think it is something that my son or daughter should be mature enough to work out on their own. If my son or daughter is married then I am sure they would know what sort of committments they have. I will only tell them at the time of their marriage that should always keep one thing in mind when they think about kids, and that is, can they provide a safe, healthy and good life to the tiny dependant that they are thinking of bringing into this World? Other than that I will never tell them any thing at all and will always respect their decission and be supportive since I would always want them to know that they can rely on me no matter what :)

ofcourse, naturality no one can't refuses. but we have very care full to think. we know out limits. so we have to bare