Is it worth it, anymore, getting married I mean?

I would say it's been well worth it. I've been married 12 years and with my husband for 15. I don't believe that there's "one" person out there for everyone (I'm sure there are many who would make great partners), but my husband and I got very lucky in terms of our compatibility. I've heard people say that marriages take effort, and ours never has. We really enjoy being with one another and spend most of our life together laughing. I always wondered if we'd be challenged by major life events (you never know how you're life is going to be affected as a couple by things like trying to have children, the illnesses and deaths of parents, moves and career changes etc.), however we both found that these events just brought us even closer. I'm sorry to rave on and on about how great things have worked out for me, when you're struggling. I just think that when a potentially right woman comes along, it will feel natural to want to get married after a period of time, and you won't find yourself second-guessing or being worried about infidelity.

I really agree with it. How do you find that love is real anyway? sometimes maybe two people start marriage without having experience with each other enough. Love and passion is not the same thing eventhough is related to each other. I think that it always start with passion and then love. There's no right answer for love, I think. You can easily see from the action of the person toward things that he or she love you or not. When you are in difficulties together you will see the real thing from the person you've been with. You can really know who loves you or not. Just don't let love blinds you. Anyway, in my experience, I was fooled by love everytime and even I really knew that the relationship was not going to work but I still keep moving on until it broke. Because I thought that I loved him and I would stay until the end. Maybe I should set my own standard for the one whom I am going to love and see the result but love just came to me accidentally and I got married. So...I have no problem with heartbroken thing anymore. I'm definitely sure that I did not make the wrong decision marrying with this guy. I wish you will meet someone who is right and just come for you. It will come..I believe it. Good luck in love!

yes it is worth getting married and start a next phase of our life with ur life partner

yes, I believe in marriage. I got married at 31 - old enough to have experienced true heartbreak, and old enough to know better. I also didn't walk into it assuming it would end. There is nothing more destructive to a union that assuming it will fail. Does anyone start a business thinking it should eventually fail? That'll kill any venture. So, no, I can't guarantee that my husband will never cheat on me. But I can take my vows seriously and know I meant them and that I won't cheat. I know he takes them seriously, too. On top of that, marriage is also a legal, financial contract, and it is binding. It offers us protections we can't get otherwise. My husband is currently on my health care insurance at work. he wouldn't be if we weren't married. We have legal protections regarding our money, our home, and our health. if I got in a car accident - he can come see me, he can take money out of my bank account to cover health care costs, and he can talk to doctors about my care if I can't do that for myself. If we weren't married, there would be a TON of red tape to cut through to make those things happen, even WITH proper legal documentation. The lady often comes out on top during divorce proceedings IF THERE ARE children involved, becuase she most likely put her career on hold to have and raise the children. it means she lost some of her earning power, and may continue to do so while she still has children to care for. I'm not saying the system is equal. What I am saying is that if you are this cynical - then don't get married. You've sabotaged it from the start if you assume you'll get divorced, and assume you'll get screwed in the end. Your potential wife deserves better than that.

yes marriage is still worth it. I'm still looking forward to getting married. As long as you love the person and your willing to spend your lifetime with that person...then marriage would be a good thing. ^__^