would u cheat on your spouse if you knew he/she was cheating?

I've watched that movie too but I wasn't able to focus on it because I was doing another thing while watching. But yes, I will cheat on my spouse and after cheating on her, I will dump her like trash which she really is.

don't get mad, get even.

I wouldn't cheat, I'd just leave!!!! I would just end the relationship. I don't have time to wait on a cheating spouce. If the spouce cheats, that is the end of the relationship right there. No forgiveneness, no turning back, nothing!!!!

I love that movie and you've raised an interesting issue. I think I probably would though I would like to think I would be "bigger" than that. It would be the perfect revenge but I wouldn't do it if I wanted to stay with them.

I would because i would have no intention of staying with them if they cheated on me. Though i would probably just break up with them first.

julia and jude met first.. jude just happened to play a prank on clive and set him up with julia..but then that's digressing... if i ever found out my spouse is cheating on me, i would prolly seriously consider giving him a dose of his own medicine.. but then aain, there's a lot of factors before i finally DO the final act: the cheating.. and i must make sure that he discovers me cheating on him.. hahaha.. ionno.. it's mean..:)

No , two wrongs don't make a right.It would alos be wrong just to find someone to sleep with for your revenge.That's ridiculous.Even with someone you know already.If you catch them, make it over with.Then move on if that's what you want to do, with or without them.

Maybe it's good for a revenge, but I wouldnt do it. If that happens to me, I'll leave him for sure, find someone new and start a new beautiful life. I wont cheat on him back because that will make me the same culprit as him. No.. lol

i never chaeted my partner and i dont like it

no i wont.. its his loss not mine.. hehehe welcome here

well, well what an interesting question! if im in a vengeful mood, perhaps id do that. but probably i'll just let it go and get on with my life. if she cheats on me, the spouse is not worth keeping. its her loss, not mine

Nope, I mean seriously, what makes you better if you can have your revenge by cheating on your spouse if you know he/she is or was cheating on you?

One mistake cannot be corrected by another mistake. If your partner cheated and you want to get even you fall on the same level as he/she is and then it gives the other justice for cheating in the first place. This happened with my friend. She thinks that her husband is not fulfilling his duty for her. She wanted to hurt him by having an affair. But it was all wrong. Now the husband has a reason to blame her too. She could have maintained her dignity so the husband could have nothing against her. It doesn't mean that when one falls in the mud the other one should follow. One should lift the other when he/she falls.

No, I will not retaliate back by cheating when I found out that my spouse is cheating on me. That will just lead to more complicated situation and problems. I would rather talk to my spouse, ask why he cheated on me, see if things can be patched up or can be sorted between us. I would rather make some steps to save the relationship. Retaliating by cheating on a cheating spouse would only just 'add wounds to the injuries'.

It is not advisable for an erred partner to also the same cheating done by the other partner. Cheating is really something which is hard to take into the realtionship. And it is just natural for any human being to feel that urge for revenge by doing the same thing. But you will lost your moral ascendancy this way. You can't extinguished the fire by also playing into the fire, you have to bring the water instead. Although I am not saying that you will just easily forgive the other person, get out from the marriage if it is already impossible to have a reconciliation but never do the same mistake. If you can get divorce, then marry again.

Honestly hun I don't think that 2 wrongs make a right so if my hubby cheated on me I think we'd be heading for divorce court real quick! Have a good weekend! PurpleTeddyBear!

If my spouse cheated on me I would get rid of him fast. I wouldn't even have time to cheat because we would no longer be together.

I am a wife. I will share my views as a wife. A wife should never cheat on her husband even if husband cheats the wife. Cheating is an individual choice. It may be a husband's choice, but it should never be the choice of the wife. He will have to answer to his God.

No i dont think so. If i found out that my spouse was cheating on me i wouldnt stay in the marriage. I would definitely go and file for divorce as soon as i found out. I think marriage vows should be taken very seriously even if the other person doesnt.

I wouldn't do that-cheat on my spouse because he is cheating me, why do I have to make things worst for us? I think this is not a sensible thing to do. How about the kids what will happen to them. I think we have to talk with my spouse and settle things. But I agree on punishing the cheating spouse, just to make him realize his fault but we have to forgive still and strive to make our family a better one afterall we must have done something to cause him to do that.