Why can't some female's deal with a man have a child???

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Why can't some female's deal with a man having a child and really vice-versa????I can recall one time where I was faced with that issue I was in college for a short period of time and I met this female she was cute and everything I like her like that...But she had 2 kids...One of my former friends was like go for it and I couldn't...Because in my mind set I would have to be willing to commit not only to that woman but her children as well and I wasn't ready to make that type of committment only because she had two kids one I could do but two I could not.I realized that...We are good friends today only because we never took it to that level...Now I'm in that position myself...and female's don't want to deal with a man with a child...I'm not the type of person to walk away from my child I'm going to be a man and take care of mines...I know female's want the man to be without kids like the just like the man wants the woman to be without kids but things happen!!!People shouldn't be shallow to the fact of missing out on a great thing of even a great person because of something that happen before them...If you really like the person you shouldn't hold that against them...Because things happen