Love and Relationships

I've generally cut off ties because they all harmed me in one way or another and I never wanted nor want to see them again. I have had like small short incidences where i still talk tot he guy like if we kissed a couple times and what not and he didn't want anything...we're still friends.

Historically, I have remained friends. However, I ended up with my two serious boyfriends again later. One I did finally cut all ties with after he tried to kiss me when I had just told him I was dating his friend from high school, and the other one... well, I've always stayed in contact because we were always a couple states apart, but now he is like a half hour away, and I don't want to see him because I know it will hurt my husband's feelings.