Hey I hear what you're saying, well read it really, and sometimes wonder the same myself.
However, my wife is slim but certainly not fake, she has a natural tan (she's a Filipina) and wonderful long black hair AND she's hot, hot, hot!!
im glad for you, I seen this woman lost alot of weight before and she just didnt look that good to me she looked fake, i seen her last night she gain 40 pounds and she look happy and natural .
Yes, I think I know a few like that too, trying to look like some of the so called role models, supermodels, actresses etc. The natural ones always seem much happier.