Can I help her, or should I butt out?
@purpleravenhawk (81)
United States
December 20, 2006 7:47pm CST
A high school intern at my office is only 16 and is already engaged to someone and plans to marry right out of high school. This guy is a jerk to her and has made her entire family unhappy with the way he acts and the way he treats her. Additionally, he has a record from drug use and other issues and is a suspected thief. Everyone agrees that she could do so much better than him, but she doesn't seem to believe that. I know that love is blind, especially young love, but is there any way I could make her listen to reason?
1 response
@vallly (93)
• Romania
25 Mar 07
I think you have to do all its posible to help her. Of course its not easy when its about love but you can try. So you have to find a way to make her wake up but not directly. She dont have to feel you are not agreee with this relationship. There are 2 years untill she will finish the school and it could happen many things in this time. All you have to do is to be close to she in the bad momment.
