"it is difficult to descipline a cat in comparison to a dog"
By UPLANA
@UPLANA (3159)
India
December 21, 2006 12:48am CST
You can't discipline cats as you would dogs. Dogs form social hierarchies that you can take advantage of by placing yourself at the top. Cats form social groups only by necessity and the arrangement is based on respecting territory, not by respecting the "top dog". Many mistakes made with cats are due to thinking that they will react like dogs.
Don't ever hit a cat or use any sort of physical punishment. You will only teach your cat to fear you
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@RAHULSINGH (202)
• India
21 Dec 06
i am agree with u!dogs r more obedient then cat
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@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
21 Dec 06
I have a male cat and the experience living with him is somewhat full of love. However I agree that cats are not at all like dogs. Dogs can be taught to obey you but cats - you have to treat him like somebody arrogant (that's what I feel toward my cat). Deep down inside I could feel my cat having this type of connection with me. Let me tell you this touching story.
I picked up Jebat (my cat's name) from a drain and he was soaked wet when I rescued him. I fed him and gave him shelter. I treat him like he is my own son.
Surprisingly I have this feeling that Jebat thinks I am his mother. It's true... one morning when Jebat was a little baby he woke me by biting my lips. He would miau miau at my face until I get up because he wanted to race to the toilet with me! Everytime I recall this incident tears fall because it was so cute and my love for him increased tremendously from that moment.
There was one period about six months I stayed alone not with husband because my workplace is too far. I rented a house and Jebat stayed with me. He would never sleep anywhere else but together with me in the bedroom. He didn't sleep on the bed though, but he makes sure he sleeps in the same room with me. That makes me feel safe.
There is one time when Jebat had a cut on his foot. He refused to eat and sat at a corner. I put food on his plate but he never ate. So I decided to feed him using my hand and automatically he ate and he ate a lot!
Jebat is very loving and he is very timid with me. I took English classes at one time. I left Jebat in the morning and come home in the evening. But I made sure his food is enough for his breakfast and lunch.
Every evening I would walk from the bus stop to my house. I had to cross a small brige before I can reach home. Jebat would come running towards me at the bridge which is 150 metres away from my house when he heard the first faint sounds of my footsteps.
I know Jebat will recognize me even in the dark or anywhere. Because he recognize my footsteps and the sound of my housekeys. Other people's footsteps he would never bother at all. But only to me he is so passionate and loving.
I just can't express how much I love Jebat. It's undescribable.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
Cats have minds of their own, they are highly independentalthough my cat that was left after his owner a nieighbour of mine passed away, so I took him in, I was surprised to see that he asks to go out to the toilet, I don't need to have kitty litter, I have often wondered if he was trained to do that or that is just what he does...
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@clownfish (3269)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Hi! We had a cat who would beg to come inside from the backyard, use the litter box, then want to go back outside! haha I guess she thought the litter box was the only place to go potty! Aren't they funny little creatures?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Dec 06
hahaha, i would hate that, they are funny little things, I love them.
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@pendragon (3349)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Cats and Dogs are immensely different creatures and are owned by usually very different people.Cats are aloof or very affectionate when THEY feel like it and that's that. Dog's need constant attention and your approval.Both animals have their issues but yes, cats are more difficult to discipline.
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@loveoutloud (225)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I agree although cats can be trained if you want them to be. My cat knows what "get in the kitchen" is when you point to her haha, and some little things as well (she knows what "sit" is) but I'd never try to train her like a dog because well, cats aren't born that way.
They're very independent and will most likely give you that "WTF are you ON?!" kind of look. :D
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@calvin222 (1606)
• India
22 Dec 06
A man looked after his dog well. fed it , brushed it was kind to it, took it for long walks, and the dog thought-"my master must be god"
Similar was a man who loved and looked after his cat, and the cat thought-" This guy looks after me so well, I must be God"
Well that sums up the difference between the two.
@yannefranco (341)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
yes, dogs a very intelligent creatures, if you just treat them as if they're human, they wouls act like one. the only thing that they can't do is to talk.
@erminiasanjose (1588)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
I have cats and dogs and I like them both. The dogs usually guard my house as I am alone and the cats are inside the house playing or what not. I'm happy to be with them.
@learnandearn (254)
• China
22 Dec 06
wow, this is new idea I never heard about before. If what u said is true, it seems cats are more disobedient than dogs. However many people who raise cats maybe don't think so. Their cats are lovely and tender and will never disobey them although the cats sometimes look slothful. Do u have any detailed proofs to demonstrate ur idea?
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@clownfish (3269)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Hi! That's exactly right. I've read that if you want your cat to stay kittenish all its life, you should never hit it. Discipline a cat?! hahaha We have a vet who says that cats exist to make vets look stupid! They don't whimper like dogs and sometimes don't give any indication that something is wrong, they just deal with it and move on. I've had cats all my life, and I love them more and more!
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I have had both, and a lot depends on the animal. But I do think that dogs are a bit easier to train to be more domesticated. Cats have their own mind. I have two. One ignores me, but is well behaved. The other is very responsive like a dog, but gets into trouble all the time.
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@sylph74 (14)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I have both a cat and a dog,and the relationship i have with each is completely different. Dog's do crave/need social interaction,and are born with the desire to be a part of a social group/family. It is quite interesting to see my dog's relationship with my husband,because it is obvious that she respects him as the 'alpha male' in the house,she will never put her ears up all the way and is almost timid in her actions around him,while around me she is bouncing around. She thrives on behaving in ways that will get her a pat on the head or a 'good dog' said to her.
My cat on the other hand, i know she views me as her 'mother',always has,but there is no way to teach her tricks,she has no desire to be told she is a good cat,i guess!
@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
22 Dec 06
My cats will respond to me yelling their names but they do pretty much what they want. Also, using a bottle of water to spray them when they're doing something wrong sort of helps.. but again... they pretty much end up doing what they want more so than a dog!! lol
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@bevanamit (645)
• India
22 Dec 06
s its true its very difficult to train a cat,but v cant help it, but i think our affection towards it can help to descipline it.