Friends turn lesbian and hit on me
By jen20619
@jen20619 (1300)
Ireland
December 21, 2006 4:19am CST
okay here it is.Im straight cant express that enough.But Im getting irratated by female friends that eventualy start to fancy me this is when we are out of the pull for guys and they get alittle nasty cause they cant have there way with me.I have stopped paling with a girl like this in the past.Now the girl I go on the pull with is acting the same.Why does this happen to me??
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@TKDSquid (56)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I guess you are just so beautiful you attract all sexes. I think what your friends are looking for is a trusting and intimate relationship, one they don't seem to get from the guys around them. Keep your friends but just let them down easy. They just want to be loved and respected like everyone else. They are just having trouble expressing their feelings.
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@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
21 Dec 06
have ya tried telling them you're not interested in that kind of relationship? Tell them friends is great, but thats all, you're straight and going to stay that way. BTW...people don't "turn" gay or lesbian....they are born that way, its not a choice.
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@sunshinecup (7871)
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21 Dec 06
Why do you choose friends that are gay? Stop doing that if you REALLY don't want them to hit on you or a fraid they will. IMO maybe you send mixed signals. Be up front and honest, then don't flirt or except unwanted behavior from them. I have a ton of gay friends, never have the women hit on me. I'm honest with them and they have no problems respecting that. I had one that was bull headed, but that was her personality, so I dropped her.
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Botton line you need new friends. If they were your true friends, than they would respect your privacy and personal preferences. Obvisously they had a hidden agenda all along and young adults like to experiement with different things. Go have fun and tell your friends, if they can't respect you and leave.
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@jazzafrazz (910)
• Canada
29 Jan 07
From what I can tell from your pic you have the look of innocence, and beauty.. you sound like a good person that seems to get stepped on. its a good thing except when certain females are around, they obviously hit on you. Maybe if you pal around with the same amount of guy friends as you do with gal friends and balance it all out, it MIGHT be better. Personally from what i see you do look very cute I think that's what they see,.. "cute, innocent, easy to step on, submissive, and easy to get to know" I'm sure you'll find a cure for this! I think your gal friends are already lesbian when you first meet them!!
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 06
Maybe you have some kind of special beauty for lesbian girl:)
because i can see from your pic that u are pretty, and also i seen that lots of gay community mostly handsome and pretty to:)
i think u have to showed them that u are straight, i mean for example when they act like they likes you, u can pretent by tell them " that guy is so cute" when you saw a man (any man) inside ur vision.even u didnt mean it but at least they will know u r straight.:)
or you can talk to ur friend that u r still straight
@AmStaff (142)
• Romania
22 Dec 06
If the person in the picture is you... than i must say that you 'r a really beatiful and atrractive person. And i understand those girls :). Leaving the jokes behind ... i really don't know what will i do in your situation. But surely i will kick the guy :). Just kidding ... i really don't know watt will i do .. and don't want to find out :)
@saptohan83 (9)
• Bangladesh
22 Dec 06
first off as they said people don't turn lesbian next why in the world would a lesbian go "pulling for guys" they are not attracted to them? thats makes no since at all!
@here4uall (77)
• Romania
22 Dec 06
i think it is getting quite usual to see girls kiss each other in public places like disco's or club's....i don't think this is so nice and beautiful as many other guys/girls say it is......i guess this is just a fantasy of your girl friends,but remember do not allow them to do anything that you don't like....if they are your friends they will accept your point of view and leave u alone.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
27 Jan 07
They are intersted in your for the same rason a man would be. Your cute.....you no doubt play hard to get...and so it makes you desireable. While I can't say I have ever had a lesbian interested in me, except perhaps a friend, it has everything to do with your being desireable.
Find a hetrosexual girl friend and you will be good to go.
Of course, from your question, it seems hard for you to know which is which. Watch how they treat men. First clue.
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@calvin222 (1606)
• India
22 Dec 06
having someone who loves you as a friend is fantastic. you can either just lay back and enjoy the fun. or tell her 'NO down tommy, just friends' I suppose this is the drawback of being so beautiful.
@mygreyparrot (1461)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Just tell them how it is. You are straight and not interested. It might kind of hurt their feelings, but better than being hit on all the time.
@JMPILAPIL (503)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
Maybe the best thing to solve that is to get rid of those friends and look for more cuase you might not deserve to be with them.
@198112 (335)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Well you might be a big lesbian magnet. Your friends especially, since they know you might have a big attraction for you. Sometimes we can't help who we attract.
I know it may be annoying for people that you have no interest in to be a constant nag by asking you out. I am sure you did the best thing by leaving that girl alone. Hopefully see gets the point to just mess with people who have her same interest.