9 years married 60 years man
By humaaaa
@humaaaa (1386)
Pakistan
December 21, 2006 4:30am CST
Well its very common in tribal areas or villages that they marry young girls with old men just because instead of paying penalties to their waderah (It is the boss or the head of their village). These penalties are also set on foolish things they don't have any thing to do with crime or bad doings.
If a poor person can't pay these penalties to waderahs, the Waderah weds with the daughter of that poor man no matter how old the waderah is and whats the age of the girl.
This think is very common in villages of south asia.
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45 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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21 Dec 06
im in England, and from my cultural position this practice disgusts me, a man going anywhere near a child would be called a piedophile and locked in prison for a long long time,
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@armywifey (882)
• United States
22 Dec 06
That is true, he would be looked as a pedophile here in the united states. I have read such things happening in other countries in the past but not recently.
@pvleroux (606)
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21 Dec 06
This is sad out of the eye of a westener. These people and their culture this is not a shock as his is the way they were brought up and they are quite happy with that as this is all they know and then automatically it is normal for them. They have nothing to compare standards to. If you ask any anthropologist, they will explain this easier. Read any anthripologist books and understand it. According to most of these people they have never seen any other living been in this world. Who must they test their standards against. Dont understand me wrong, I dont agree with this at all and would not vote for it to ever happen but we must also understand why they doe this and not condemn them for their actions.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
21 Dec 06
After reading this story I called my friend who is from Pakistan yelling at him. He told me, that's not true and you made it up to create drama.
You sound like old pervert or pedophile.
Why are you doing it?
@nikki_arce (78)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
hey polachicago. hadn't it even occured to you that your friend in pakistan does not know everything, i mean EVERYTHING, that happens in his country? i'm from asia and i KNOW that this happens here in my country. we have different cultures in different countries, and if you cannot accept the fact that things like this actually happen somewhere around the world, that only shows how closed-minded you are. things like this DO happen so don't go accusing somebody of sounding like an old pervert when all they want to do is talk about different cultures.
@innocentwicked (99)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
Huwaaaat?! OMG! Poor kid! She hasn't even started to live on her own and to work for what she believes in... or wants... Is the kid subjected to wifely duties? What is expected of her?
@mohsin3161 (654)
• Pakistan
21 Dec 06
i am not sure if its that common but they are there and extreme measures should be taken by govt to stop this inhumane practice
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
It is not common here but there are some who do that specially when the man is foreigner.
@subhadiproy (847)
• India
22 Dec 06
this s really disgusting... it s like the old person wud forget how to make love and the kid wont b knwing how to make love..i wonder wht they ll do...he he
@jitu_anurag (603)
• India
23 Dec 06
Tell me what you will do if you fall in love with a 50 year old person.I don't think it's a crime.Yes it is a crime if parents sell their daughter to an old person.
@ilunice (946)
• Netherlands
23 Dec 06
Well, something of this nature also happens in some areas in Nigeria. But not really as payment for penalty but as a token of friendship or good gesture. The only difference is that the father of the little bride can pledge her daughter to his friend or the son of his friend just to keep the friendship tie very strong. Again, the little bride witll not be given out in marriage untill she passes her first peiod. But I guess this tradition is fast becoming a history except in villages where the social setting is very high.
@manu_ghimire (2626)
• India
22 Dec 06
what this is disgusting , the man who married is schy or what ! want to put him slaps and get him into the jail
@gopalagarwal (518)
• India
22 Dec 06
previously it was in india also but due strong action of the goverment it has been reduced to great extent
