People saying that First Love cant be forget forever, is it true?
By plumwish07
@plumwish07 (4057)
Indonesia
December 21, 2006 5:13am CST
Well...in my opinion, yes its correct that first love cant be forgotton in our life, what about you?
5 responses
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I think that the first time you truly open your heart to another person it changes you in a way that keeps that person in your heart forever. I don't think that you are forever tied to the person. I think that you just continue to have strong feelings for them.
There was one other person I deeply loved before I met my husband and our relationship didn't end well. He has moved far away now and we never have any contact anymore. I no longer pine for him. I no longer wish he was back in my life. I can see with great clarity that although I had thought at the time that I would never be able to love someone else as much as I had loved him, he and I really weren't that great of a match. The love I have with my husband is ten million times better.
And yet, this person from the past, loved me at a time when I was very troubled about a lot of things and even kind of wondered if I was a lovable person, and he loved me inside and out. Even though it can still be painful to remember him, I remain grateful for the love he gave me and the way it changed me. So I think he will never truly be gone from my memory, and I think in a way I will always have feelings of love for him, but I am so much happier in the life I found after he was gone that in retrospect I see the time of being with him as being just part of the journey.
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I have not forgotten my first love as I still remember her and the times we had together and still have our photos of each other in my photo album. Me and her are still friends and keep in touch. She is happily married now and has a child but we remain friends.
@TKDSquid (56)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I can't forget my first love. Her name was Hilda Gomez and I knew her in high school. She was beautiful, smart, kind and sweet. Unfortunately the feelings were not mutual.