Do you judge someone based on thier looks?

I do not judge someone by their looks and wish that society would not do that. I think too many judge a book by its cover and do not realize what they are missing out on. We should be judging the person by who they are as a person and what they are like on the inside. I think that is a problem where I live. Some of the best looking people have the worst personalities on the face of the earth.

Then you shouldn't judge us on our car, job or bank account.

I am one of the people that judge soley on appearence. call me vain, call me what you want.. but appearence is really important. bosses more likely to hire you if you're attractive. which is okay, because I personally, like to see attractive people.

I don't judge people by their looks, and I dress differently than most people. I dress in what is called, to some people, goth clothes. All black, head to toe, but I care a lot about people. I have two children who are my world. I don't know what I'd do without them. I've had people avoid me because of how I dress. I feel this is childish and biased. Someone once asked me why I dressed the way I do, and I answered "To see who will talk to me and get to know me for me. Not for how I'm dressed." I don't believe in judging people by how they look, but it's also human nature. Everyone has judged someone at least once in their life. I know I have, so I can't really say too much. I try not to anymore, but sometimes it's difficult not to. Especially with the way some people dress. I feel that if someone is dressed in scantily clad clothing that they look kind of trashy. But that's just how they look, it doesn't mean they are. This is a great idea for a post, by the way, and I'm glad to have shared my opinion in it.

Men or women who go for looks only are still too immature to find a real mate. They only want eye candy. They think: good looks=good $ex, which is not always true. But what they don't know is that looks will fade, but the passion, kindness, generosity and inside beauty of a person will always remain. I went all through highschool without a boyfriend, because i was chubby. College was the same thing;guys wouldn't give me the time of day! I am not ugly, but i am chubby, so to them my overall look is not appealing. Well, finally almost 5 yrs ago, I found my true soul mate. He didn't care if i had extra weight, or didn't look like Pamela Anderson. He fell in love with my personnality, with who i am, and to him that made me gorgeous. What some people don't know is that when you truly fall in love with a person, he or she will be the most beautiful person in the world to you. That's love..

So, don't judge the book by it's cover. Appearance itself could be deceisive. We must look at thing wisely, thinking from different prespective. A girl with charming look could attract guys easily. Alhough she might be favorable, but she could hardly settle down, coz she aware that she got a lot choice to make. Guys are like disposable for her. So we should not only judge someone the look. Animals or plants in nature which is poisonous looks very attractive. Eg like venomouse snakes, rain frog & etc.

I think we should not go by how one looks from outside but connect with the person from inside. One shouldn't go by looks, appearances are deceptive. One can't really love person just by seeing their looks, this attraction, fascination or lust is temporary and wouldn't last forever as was the case with your male friend. Besides don't go by person'r sweet talk about how devout faith he has because some people go to any extent ot get what they want. But i don't think all guys are like your male friend and not all girls are alos like that.

I dont but people sure do to me. I got a shaved head, couple of tattoos and look kinda mean but Im not. I get dirty looks and people always talk down to me at first when they meet me, because I don't think they think Im smart enough to hold a decent conversation.

no do you?

It goes both ways, gals looking at guys and visa verse. But with time and wisdom, I have learned not to be so critical until they open their mouth and remove all doubt! When I was young and naive, it was a rule...beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes clean to the bone...I now relate that to personalities.

Looks can be very deceiving... but not at all times.. judging someone based on their looks is definitely not right.. just be cautious and don't fall for it right away when you still don't know the person well..

no not really but admit that when u first saw a man/woman u can be attracted at the outside apperance and then when u get along u don't mind anymore if he/she is good looking or not

I never judge a person on how he looks. I mean I do not judge him by how God created his face and body. But I often judge people from their appearance. How they dress, their level of cleanliness, their attitude and stuff like that. From there, I can get a general idea of what type of people they are.

i don't judge people on how their body looks, or on the clothes they wear, but i do judge their aspect. i can understand that maybe god didn't made u look like Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt, and maybe u can't afford to buy Versace clothes, but that doesn't mean u can't use soap and water to wash yourself or u'r clothes, to take care of u'r hair or of u'r teeth. maybe u don't have all the time in the world to stay in the mirror all day long but 1 bath with soap and 1 trip to cut u'r hair definetly can't kill u.

Oh Friend, It is neither the outer appearance nor the Religon, which makes one good or bad.The subject of good or bad itself is a relative term and it depends on once perception.You should not blame the Mirror if it shows an ugly picture. Then what? According to my conviction, the nature and actions of all living beings depend on their parents' genes.The contribution of blood and culture by the parents leads to bloom the character and qualities of that livingbeing.Of course the environment of the society where the one mingles has also it's role to influence one's behaviour, though it is of short term in nature. Unless you get up in the early morning you cannot see and enjoy sunrise.Like wise unless you come out of the bondage of Religon you cannot taste the nector of Humanity and Human Culture.

He seems to have a roving eye for pretty faces,and figures,nd also a cradle snatcher,good you never got involved,would have brought,only misery,Gods will.

Society and people judge by looks. It's a fact and you have to accept it. Looks play a VERY MAJOR BIG part in all life's aspects. It's not necessarily a bad thing, 'cause this is how human beings are programmed. Something that doesn't please the eye wouldn't be very comfortable to be around with. On the other hand, a good looking person doesn't have to have other things going for him/her (personality, humour...etc) to have people wanting to be around him/her all the time. It just means that the not good looking people have to compensate by having other traits pumped up, like maybe personality, sense of humour, money (yes I said money)and to convey these traits asap. As soon as they convey these traits, they become attractive people, sometimes even to the eye, no longer bad looking. But does that mean that we have to treat people according to their looks? I'd say NO. It pisses me off when people are treated according to their looks. It pisses me even more when I find someone avoiding another person he knows JUST because he doesn't want to be seen with him/her in public, because they are not good looking. I think it comes down to the way we were brought up and the moral values someone have.

I think so not all a man like him.many of man a good person out there.maybe one day you will find someone like you want.no body perfect in these world.if u search a perfect man,you never find

never. first i meet the person, after i have know to made a little jugdement of him.

Bill Cosby once said, that women are enticed by what they hear and men are enticed by what they see. So in this cases it is obvious that in many ways he did wait on God. Basically, he may have felt that she was the one. But as you said.. being unequally yoked was the major problem. I do not want you to dislike him because of his error in judgment. It is probably good that you two did not "hookup" back then. But you never know who God has for you.. And as for judging someone based on their looks.. it happens. Some people with the nicest looks on the outside can be monsters on the inside..and vice versa. Looks are important in the real sense of the word..but true beauty comes from within. As the Bible says "Judge yet not, for that which ye judge..the will be judged also."