Is it the way I dress that gets in trouble
By jen20619
@jen20619 (1300)
Ireland
December 21, 2006 8:35am CST
Hi this is the way I dress for a night out on the town.I want to stop attracting men that want to just sleep with me.I dont think I am showing anything in this dress.Okay I know its figured but if I go out with a jumper on whos going to chat me up?I need guys and girls advice on this one.
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125 responses
@Sarah1977 (495)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Please.....you are not serious! Is anyone here really dumb enough to believe that this girl is not just looking for attention? Come on....you cannot honestly say that you don't know exactly what you are doing when you wear a dress that practically leaves nothing to the imagination. Wear whatever you want, but please don't act like a bimbo.....
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@vinney_143 (662)
• India
21 Dec 06
there is nothing strange in guys approaching you, after all you have a nice body with great curves. But, you should judge them by the way they talk with you and for sake of this, never change your dressing attire. it looks gorgeous.
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@uselesspowers (240)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I wouldn't change what you wear because it sounds like you are forgetting a simple fact: Guys are creeps! If you have a body and are attractive (which, from pictures, it appears you are) then they are going to hit on you no matter what. Instead, find some guy friends to go partying with. That way, if a creep starts coming onto you, they can help you out of a jam (and/or help him out the door!)
@acosjo (1903)
• Canada
21 Dec 06
Your dress definitely shows off your curves. I think maybe you want to show your body ;) but you have good reason to. For sure dress down. Leave more to the imagination. Remember, it's not your looks that will find you the RIGHT person. Also, I know here some feel the right person will not be met at the bar.
I truly believe you will find the right person when you least expect it.
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@matt608 (843)
•
21 Dec 06
As everyone has said, you will have NO problem attracting guys when you go out, so there is no need to dress like that. That doesnt mean you shouldnt wear that, I mean you mite like the attention and find it fun, which is all fair enough, so it is up to you really.
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@bunnablz23 (26)
• Canada
21 Dec 06
Going out with this on will definately attract guys to come and chat w/ you. I would. In a second. I'd still think you would be hot wearing 3 layers of clothing on. I think you will notice a difference with who talks to you and what they say to you. Try it out. I guarantee guys will still hit on you.
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@ambience (67)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
hey bunnablz..u r right
jen..
Anyone would hit on u if u r dressin the way u showed in the pic..It is not showing anything but just that it makes u look hot n sexy..and anyone would go hit on a girl dressing in such a hot way..that dress is indirectly giving a message to everyone wherever u go..and the message is "come sleep with me"
hope u got what i said
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@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
i agree with bunnablz....from what i see in the pic its doesnt show you as an elegant feminim girl but more like a woman looking for date hehehe ( no offense)
I see you have a good sexy body and u r pretty too ( i mean it)so i believe if u wore something more polite you'll still look pretty and sexy only that only a valuable man would dare to came to talk to u and its give u a higher rating of ur self.
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@artanis50 (44)
• United States
21 Dec 06
You know your dress is provocative. If you're smart enough to know that, you're smart enough to know to wear something more conservative. It's fun to dress like that sometimes but if you want a good guy, one that likes you for who you are and not what you are wearing, be more conservative and don't show half your body before you know the guy.
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@canadabis1 (1952)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
well....truthfully...and if u knew me youd know i was pretty blunt.....yes....you dress like that...you attract that kinda guy...your hot..you know it...and so does everyone else...so you dont have to dress that sexy...im not sayin put on a parka or slap on a set of coveralls...just try somethin that doesnt look like it came out of a can of spraypaint.
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@kungfustue (319)
• Australia
22 Dec 06
hey im irish to spose thats what makes us all freaky
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@kungfustue (319)
• Australia
22 Dec 06
you dont have to wear clothes to be attractive. the potato sac idea is tottally freaky man highfive mate. ya big freak
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@Devinarun (387)
• United States
21 Dec 06
well dress howevr way you want but see that it does not look vulgar...well that dress was not bad but if ur goin alonee and if u think the crowd is dangerous i think u should not dress that way.
@innocentwicked (99)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
If you want a different crowd to go to you, you should change the way you dress. You're beautiful just being you. You don't need to impress anyone anymore. So wear something comofortable.. something that's not too revealing nor too sexy. Your sample dress really attracts attention because, aside from your pretty face, you show off those curves too. And honestly? It looked like you were wearing nothing but your skin.
Sorry if I hurt you. Just wanna be honest... =)
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@shiboleth (270)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
If you are dressed like a harlot people will assume that you are one. If you want respect from men you must dress like a woman who is worthy of respect. It is foolish to dress the part and then complain that you are assumed to be that.
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@ambience (67)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
Anyone would hit on u if u r dressin the way u showed in the pic..Itis notshowing anything but just that it makes u look hoot..and anyone would go hit on a girl dressing in such a hot way..that dress is indirectly giving a message to anywhere u go..and the message is "coming sleep with me"
hope u got what i said
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@ambience (67)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
sorry lots of typos in the above msg
Anyone would hit on u if u r dressin the way u showed in the pic..It is not showing anything but just that it makes u look hot n sexy..and anyone would go hit on a girl dressing in such a hot way..that dress is indirectly giving a message to everyone wherever u go..and the message is "come sleep with me"
hope u got what i said
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@wyldechylde (139)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
I know what you meen guys are always walking up and asking me to sleep wtih them and its always the ugly guys who do it or the ones who are fat and bald like hello In going to want to be with you when there are so many cute guys around. And its never the guys you like who do it its always the ugly one.s
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@clynnh95 (147)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I have to agree with most of the other responses. It is a beautiful dress and you are a very pretty woman. I think you just need to dress like you would during the day and see what happens. If a guy is interested, he will talk to you no matter what. Good luck.
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
21 Dec 06
I do understand that you wanna look nice and wear something that u feel nice in. BUT if you are wearing this you will definately be chatted up by men who wants to sleep with you, the guys that donĀ“t just wanna sleep with you might even get intimidated byy the dress.
Like someone else said. If you wear something else you will still get asked out or chatted up, but maybe you will attract atleast somedecent guys!
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@drumm1n (499)
• India
21 Dec 06
dayam woman! looking like that i wouldnt be able to control ma self!:P..i mean il involtarily come to you n start talkin to u! and i guess that goes the same for other guys! see if you dont want guys who are only interested in sleeping with you! you should dress your worst and see which guy comes up to you and starts talkin to u! and genuinely enjoys himself! dressin up so..fine! you only gonna get da players! the others might be too intimidated to talk to u!
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@samwilliams06 (946)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I personally think that its just beacuse the dress is so form fitting that youget that kind of attention. plus it doesnt look like you have on underwear either. If your clothes were more looe ten makybe you wouldnt attract so much attention. But we are girls, we are goig to get it regaurdless of what we do about it.
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@jitu_anurag (603)
• India
21 Dec 06
Yes you are wrong i believe.me 2 will get attract with this type of dressing and will have the same desire.I want to ask u is that why u allow this desire to get express?be formal or imformal but must have some sense in dressing.