why do women use kids to hurt their chid father?

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when me and my ex-wife seperated last year we was fine until she found out i was seeing someone else so fast. she tried to make me jealous about talling me about all the men she was seeing but ijust didnt care about her personal life. you see i had stop loving her about a year before we seperated so i didnt care what she did. i tried to make it work for the benitfit of our family but all the wrong i did to her was to much for her to stop doing wrong to me. i accepted that and decided to move on with my life. we are divorced now but not after shetook me through all type of changes. the first being i went over her house to pick my daughter up one day to take her shoping,this was just after we seperated, and she invited me in. somehow she found out i was seeing someone and question me about it. at first i didnt want to say anything but eventually gave in and she went berzerk. curing me out throwing stuff telling me iwas never going to see my daughter again. iwas upset and tried to leave when this nut jumps in front of the door and want let me leave. so i just moved her out the way. the next thing i know im in jail for nothing. that simple stupid act has cost me four good paying jobs i could of had. after that i went to texas for some work and when i tried to call my daughter she would hang up in my face. i didnt talk to or seen my daughter for about six months. during which i had alawyer and had to pay all kind of money,well worth it, to see my daughter agein legally. my question is why? ladies if your baby father does not want you please dont let that effect his relationship with his child.